So my boyfriend and I have decided we want to have sex and I need to know how to blow him. We're both virgins and I don't want to be about to do it and just guess on the technique. All I know is suck on the head but like what else? I want to be impressive
I'd suggest you talk with him, ask him how you could make him feel better, and of course tell him how he could make you feel good. Nothing beats a bit of comunication.
Best thing you can probably do is watch some porn, seriously. Check out tube8.com, it's free videos and has categories, one of them being BJs. Just watch a couple and pay attention to what she does. Most of the videos are not professional, so it's not like you'll be watching an unrealistic act. You may not be into watching but honestly you'll have to get over that in order to get some good ideas on what to do. Also, I will warn you now that if he is a virgin he will probably go pretty quickly, this is natural for lots of guys their first time. If you don't want it in your mouth then you need to tell him to pull out and away when he is ready. You most likely will not like how it tastes, but on the other hand guys like it when the girl swallows it. I say you either let him go in your mouth and then you spit it back out, or just let him shoot on your face or something. Getting everything that you want to do figured out before you do this will help avoid awkward or embarrassing situations when you go to do it.
I'll do that and I'm not against watching it. Truthfully I don't really do it that often but it's not just cuz I'm sinful I just get off more on an emotional connections. And I've decided that I will swallow because theres something about the fact he has a hot body that makes it a big turn-on. OMG droooool I love it sooooo much. But anyway yea that's already been decided. We were gonna do it last night but we got home at like 3 and we were like "Forget it I'm tired" We pretty much both passed out on the floor right when we walked in the door. And his parents were home anyway but next weekend he's coming to my house and my parents will be out of town. OOOOO I'm soooo excited wish me luck!
