So... what road should i take?

I am gay (I hate labels though) and my friend might be straight/bi/hiding. He has a girlfriend that he is with a lot but ever since high school we have always been really physically and emotionally close a great friendship at the least, nothing sexual unfortunately. i have been in love with him for all of h.s., he turned me on to the Dead and pot and showed me a lot about myself. Now that high school is almost over i don't know if i should be blunt with him and tell him how i feel, hoping for the best or just respect his straight life and we can both remain at the status quo. i don't want to damage our relationship but i think about this too much to keep this in. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Peace guys!

 

I would try and feel him out first (not literally of course, haha) but ask a few loaded questions to try and determine whether or not he's into guys at all....then if he is, proceed with caution.

 

Questions like...?

 

Play gay with him and see how he reacts. If he doesn't play along too much pass it off as a joke.

 

What Whelshy said...

 

We do play around a lot so it's hard to know how much i should "play."

 

Get'em drunk and find out the truth! Good Luck


Or you can just be straight with him and ask him very carefully if he share or has ever shared feels of you the same way you of him.

 

Get em drunk!!! People are more open when they're drunk.. don't take advantage of him though! hahhaha

 

Jager-night!!!! YAYYYY!!!! Just playin...