The Truth about Female Orgasms

first of all, a lot of girls fake orgasms. i have a shit load of girl friends, and we talk VERY explicitly about sex. they fake almost always. the reason? to get you off quicker, most likely. another reason is that they simply dont KNOW how to orgasm, with a partner or on their own. its very sad, but its true. props to all us girlies that know how to cum, but the plain truth is a lot cant.

second of all, the girls that CAN cum from sex dont fuckin appreciate it when you act as if WE are the weird ones because sometimes we lose the orgasm or cant cum 10 times in one session. the only reason you THINK that is the norm is because the other chicks you were boning were LYING TO YOU. thats not to say women cant cum that much in a night, i have before, but its not the norm. well, not for MOST of us. would you rather us fake? honestly???

is it just me who has come to these realizations!? its always drove me nuts, how other chicks faking orgasms has ruined it for me. i hate faking orgasms, whats the point? sure it'll be easier to get him off, but why lie to the guy!

 

Ive never had a friend who faked a lot. i havent faked a lot. Maybe 3 to 5 times since i started having sex. The reason i have was always because i couldnt and wasnt in the right frame of thought. Also because my boyfriend was getting tired and it seemed like my orgasm wouldnt cum quickly. Pun intended Sometimes its o.k to fake to avoid confrontation and shouldnt be frowned apon. Sometimes it just aint going to happen and guys might not understand that.

 

be honest....wtf....

 

i dont think people like to get there feelings hurt

 

that's pathetic.

 

so you would want your girlfriend to tell you every time she cant orgasm?

 

Yeah. I do.
Sorry but I think truth is the only way to go. I don't want to be fucking lied to.

 

alls im saying is that faking it once twice or three times in years isnt bad.

 

why?

I think faking anything bad.
This world is full of lies, and people faking

what this world needs is truth
on every single level of existence

 

ok fine. its bad to fake an orgasm

 

how do you feel when you fake it?
do you enjoy faking it?

 

no but thats not going to change.

 

EXACTLY!!!! and like, it happens to guys and we understand. why cant we have the same understanding. its very frustrating.

 

I have only had to fake an orgasm when the guys dick was too small - i need size to get off, and usually i'll tell him im gonna go take a shower or some thing and then go get my self off in the bathroom with out him

 

MJ - I do not know if you were angry when you posted this or if you are just being cynical. I have never been with a woman who is faking it to my knowledge. Perhaps I'm being naive, or maybe they all faked it and they're ALL that good at faking it. They can fake the verbal responses they have (e.g., When Harry Met Sally), but I cannot see them faking the bodily fluids that are a normal part of having sex.

It sounds like maybe you've had some bad experience(s). I'm not doubting that your friends told you that they fake it a lot...perhaps they do. I also agree that having unrealistic expectations that every woman is going to cum a dozen times at every session is not a healthy attitude to have. I just wanted to express a different viewpoint of experiences.

 

Sorry, but thats a load of bullshit. None of my friends have fake it alot, and I know because we talk about sex alot. If your faking it alot then maybe you aren't putting enough effort in to try to get in the mood. Way to make women sound like bitches. I can easily get off 10 plus times everytime I have sex. Nor do I ever feel the need to fake it.

 

Also, many guys are much more understanding than you think. I wouldn't get mad if my girlfriend wasn't in the mood. Also, some of us think that sex isn't only about having pleasure, but giving it as well.
I agree with stalk, everything would be better if there where more honesty. Especialy in emotional and sexual relationships.

 

Yeah guys don't need to be lied to about weather or not you have an orgasm. Fuck faking an orgasm, wheres the fun in that? Besides guys aren't stupid. Your pussy squeezes his cock in a natural way. Why would you fake, I agree with Sarahrei.


Tiffany

 

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I dont know really, because like during sex i moan alot but when like my heads out of the moment sort of thing i can seem to control it. :S i dont know how to explain it and i dont know whether i fake it or not.