Help Me With The Man That Cant Be Loved

Thank God i found this forum ..... i have been so depressed these few days.


I am 22 years old and have 3 girl friends before.


Yeap, i am a guy, i am single for 2 years already.


The story goes like this,


I know this GUY for 1 years since i start my university study till now.

No doubt that he is my best friend now and he help me alot when i have troubles.


Unfortunately, i am in love with him.I like to be around with him and like to have physical contact with him while we playing sports. I even massage him.

I get jealous when he go out with his girlfriend instead of me(he is single now).


I have never come to this before because i know like gals.

I am thinking of whether i am GAY but it end up i dun like any guys EXCEPT HIM who give me this special feelings.


Why ??
so many years of being a normal guy can end up being a gay until i met him?


i am frustrated. I cant accept it and not willing to tell any of my friends. I am sorry to say that.


One thing for sure is i like him. But he is just a normal guys (NOT GAY at ALL)


What should i do ?? I dun wanna loss this best friend.

Mayb i shud sacrifice myself. Mayb telling him that he is my best friend in this life will do.

 

If he's not gay, don't try anything stupid. It'll probably just weird him out if you come on to him.
If you're sure that you're gay, tell him, unless of course he's a huge homophobe. But be aware that even if he's not homophobic, things may get a little bit more awkward and tense around him.
If you still find yourself having emotions for women, then I guess it's pretty safe to assume that you're bisexual.
Also, don't mistake curiousity for homosexuality.

 

Hell go for it,he already lets you message him...LOL

 

I dun think he send out the signal to let me message him.

are you sure telling him is good ?

things will surely become awkward, i scared it might freak him out