The boy I love doesn't love me!

Yep, he was only in it for the sex. If he told you he was a virgin, he was lying like hell. Just move on.

 

be careful who you have sex with. especially at your age.

 

uhh...sure... not pressuring each other into sex at 14 is the exact definition of true love.

 

so sorry to hear it. but try to think like this way which maybe you will feel better. you said you love him but he doesn't love you. It means you just lost a man who doens't really care about you. it's nothing. but he just lost girl who really love him so much . so it's his loss.

 

ill tell ya girly, that this will fade. you will barely remember this guy in the long run. take what you can from the experience and move on.

 

I never said it was, you should learn to read, it helps save everyone some time.

As for the topic creator, if it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be. If said person is truly wasting your time, all you can do is move on to the next person.

 

Jeez, at least you got a year and a passionate night under the stars. Be happy with that.

^ the preceding was a statement slathered in jealous angst. I admit this because in no way does that fact diminish its point or make it any less realistic.

 

your just digging yourself deeper.

 

How did you find out he didn't love you? And what do you mean you were with him for a year? Were you two in a relationship and how was it? Honestly 14 is too young to be thinking about love anyway. Feelings of infatuation and lust are often confused with love at that age. before you know it you'll be loving someone else. I'm just really sorry your first time had to be like this.

 

Eh, 14 is not bad. I know girls who started having sex at 12. It depends on the person, I guess, and how fast they develop.

 

this part of your life is like a pebble of sand. you have so many more bigger rocks to worry about. learn to look forward and be strong.