I know there are probably lots of threads on this but how do i suggest to my girlfriend that i want to try anal? We have been going out for 6months and things have been good so far but she was at my house over the weekend and we must have had sex overall for just under 24hours (i couldnt walk after). Anyway i was so tempted to say something but dont know how to say it. Cant think of a nice way of putting it. Any help please? Or and tips for when we do try it? Cheers
I usually ask if it is something they want or like. I just tell the person to be completely honest about their intentions and what they like. Its pretty simple, is it something you think she will like? Tiffany
Its not that easy in life. Have to take it easy and suggest it outside the bedroom. Still dont know how. If i do suggest it what would you ladies say the advantages are of anal?
Just be straight with her. Say something along the lines of "Hey, how do you feel about anal?" That simple.
Yeah but its not that simple. I know thats the best idea but its difficult to put it nice and not sound like a perv.
What is wrong with being a perv around her? You have already had sex, and great sex from the sound of it. If she is an adult she will handle it like an adult, and probably apprecaite you being up front.
True. I didnt think about it like that. She does seem to keep get even more dirty with time so maybe i should just come out with it. I will keep you posted
Remember you only get what you give. The next time you do her, whisper in her ear that you would love to do anything she can imagine to turn her on and fulfill all of her sexual fantasies. Say that and really mean it. You just may find that she wants to return the sentiment. It sounds like you can throw down in the bedroom. As long as a woman knows that you are good at everything you do she'll naturally, (and rightly so), assume that you'll turn her on just as much when you fuck her ass.
A friend of mine told me "I hate it when I get a little drunk and my husband tricks me into thing I wouldn't do if I were sober."
The only time I was actually able to have it successfully happen... I had a fair amount of alcohol in my system... It worked out well. :biggrin: