So some of the ladies I work with just told me I look "virginal" I am not exactly sure what that means, while I am sure they meant it with the nicest of intentions, I am not sure I like that idea... Anyway they are now walking around the office calling me "Virgin Heather".... what a nickname!! :toetap05:
they mean you look sweet and innocent, i'm guessing. which is not such a bad thing... i guess. if it was me, i would be laughing my ass off since it would be so far from the truth... but if it bothers you, just tell them to stop.
i know they werent being mean, i just dont like the idea of looking virginal at 23... i mean when i was sixteen it wouldnt have been a big deal at all ( i was, so it fit) i dont know i guess the idea of looking "virginal" just compounds the "been alone for 2 years" thing. HA... oh well! It is what it is!
Once again never thought so before, not overly, anyway... but i guess i am on uber good behavior at work...
it like the only compliment i have recieved lately, and i guess for one i am taking it for granted, and for two, i just dont think any guy is gonna look at a woman and say "wow she looks virginal" and it be a good thing.... thats the root of it right there!
i don't know... some guys like to be with virgins. there's that rush of being the one to "corrupt" this sweet little thing...
Well who cares about what guys think ? Pfffft...guys are lame anyway. You said you're fine with the way you look, so I don't see what you actually want...Maybe you do look a bit virginal, but you don't want to change anything about your looks. Soooooo....I dunno. I had a point, but I forgot it
Maybe you should get back at them by taking some aerobic exercise classes, jugging, doing yoga, and picking up a martial art?