Fear To Be Alone

Well, I have this trouble: I'm totally scared of being alone. I don't know if I'm childish or what, but I've never had a boyfriend. A few times, guys have come to me and asked me, but I didn't want to. I'm too idealistic, and I didn't really thought they were the correct for me.
Anyway, I'm really scared of this. I don't want to be like that the rest of my life and sometimes I feel that I'm ugly or I'm too silly...I don't really know what to think.

Any help or word, please?

 

There is a lot of fish in the sea. different people use different bait, just keep fishing, you'll catch the right one sooner or later.

After looking at your profile, it seems like your the fish i would like to catch someday

 

i think most people experience that from time to time. the healthy ones don't let it drive them to make poor relationship decisions. when it's right, it's right.

SING WITH ME!

you can't hurry love
no, you'll just have to wait!

 

yep, no worries. your only 17, you'll have plenty of time to find the perfect someone.

 

she said love dont come easy,
its a game of give and take.

 

I dont understand the fear of being alone. two of my tias ended up with some fucked up lives because they got together with men who werent worth shit because of their fear of being alone. one of em cheated, beat her, basically used her as a maid. now he has been deported and she's never had a job, she has son she cant support and is a diabetic. she cant walk, is blind and has nothing. My other tia just made her man her whole world and is isolated.. Its sad
Make friends if youre that lonely.

 

my MIL is finally learning, after FOUR failed marriages. bless her heart.

 

imagine all she could have done. for herself and for her family with all that time and energy . and all that pain! Bless her heart indeed.

 

she's a good woman. she HAS done some amazing things. from teenaged mom to putting herself through school and becoming a nurse and supporting herself. it's just ONE THING that she can't quite figure out.

 

see man. all that energy and wonderfulness that is her on worthless men. My poor aunt man. all she's able to do is sit at home and rely on peoples handouts. her son was raised in his way and now is dumb and just as worthless as his father. he is 2 years behind in school and getting dumber I think. he sits in front of the tv and plays video games and expects his blind mother to wait on him. I wanna kick his ass. but he's 12 so I cant.

 

ugh. it funny, because she absolutely abhors the sort of men that would have done her some good. weird.