well i started losing sexual attraction to girls about 3 years ago, and im 17 now. i started not seeing breasts as sexual anymore then after a while i wasnt attracted to vaginas either. the odd thing is im not gay because im not attracted to guys at all either. i still am somewhat attracted to girls but in a way hard to describe. i cant just look or touch a girls body and get turned on. i really wish i found breasts and such sexy. so i guess what im asking is what the heck is happening to me and is there any way that you know of to maybe help me get attracted to girls again?
so you think if i found someone i truely love i might find breasts attracted but only hers? that seems far fetched. and wouldnt explain why i used to like basically anyones and now nothing can even make me look twice.
well i dont think im asexual because i do think girls are atractive but not their body parts its pretty hard to explain. like id still be turned on if i kissed a girl but i see their breasts like i would an elbow, just like any other body part. does anyone know how i might being to find their body parts sexual again?
Sounds to me that you're a normal teenager, and you're still developing your sexual "tastes." Heaps of people go through phases where they're not sure if they're gay or straight or asexual when they're at that age. Dont label yourself too soon. A lot of people dont know what they really want sexually until they're in their late 20's or so. If you still feel the way you do now, when you turn 30, then Id say you're asexual (Asexuals notice attractiveness in other people, they just arent that interested though). But now, it's too early to know for sure.
I went through the same thing. I found guys attractive, but I just wasn't all that into them. I didn't date for the longest time. Even if I had a crush on a guy and I liked him I said no. It was hard to explain, there was just so much going on at the time that I just couldn't handle another persons problems let alone my own. You'll be just fine. Tiffany
Don't worry, you're over-analyzing... just be, Brother. Be glad you're not sexually obsessed like I was at that age... uh, still am I suppose.
I could be wrong here, but it appears to me that what you're seeking is intimacy...not nexcessarily sexual intimacy. Typically, females attach a lot of emotion into sexual activity and I think that you may be searching for the emotional bond. You mentioned that you're sexually turned on by kissing antoher female, but not by her body. Well, kissing is a very intimate act (some even think that kissing is more intimate than vaginal or oral sex). I would suspect that if you found a girl that you really like (and have an emotional connection with) and began kissing her, you would be extremely turned on once you saw her breasts...And even more turned on when you saw the rest of her body! Good luck...
