righhhhht.. av just started goin out with some mates av known for 4/5 years now:cheers2: n the 'crew' has peepz from different skools n the reely nice n lovin - known them for a week now but theres this one girl, best mates ex n now a good friend's gf - but she told me that she likes me n a dunno wot to do about it. their relationship isnt gonna last me thinks and she has said it might of bin a mistake - he is reely clingy/controlling/too uptight/trying to hard. we get along reely well n she is one of the ppl av only known for a week n she said thats besides the point n av had no time to go into detail about it with her because of said bf. - wen a first met her a thought wow she is beautiful and if i had a chance i would seize it but this is were the problem occurs... they have only been going out for a week n she told me she likes me about 4/5 days into it, n shud i get to know her more behind his back or wait it out untill its over? thing is tho ive bin tlkin to her with wot little oppertunity ive had n we tlked bout his clingy/controlling/too uptight/trying to hard problems n she agrees with me (good start) a reely want it to work out between us too, she is beautiful n i amazing(jokes ppl!) yer jokes aside n a hope a could have a bit of help from you loving ppl in these forums coz av seen how warm n kind-hearted ppl here can be. i hope this makes sence to everyone coz it took me like an hour to type it oh n btw - is there any way i can change my account name? n a hope a posted this in the correct place. thanks -- sb50 (new name hopefully)
All's fair in love and war, if you remember to play fair. And I don't think going behind your friend's back is the definition of fair.
indeed, thats true Musikero, all is fair in love and war - a want to find her love, but i do not wanna start a war =/ watta bitch of a stiuation tho! *update* ive spoken to her over the weekend, returned the feelings and added 'i wanna get to know u better when we have the chance' and she greatfully said yeah not the answer i was hoping for, bit more percific (but all in all its a good start!!) hopefully ill see her tomorro wel, i shud say 'today' seen as tho teh time i posted this is like 6 in the early morn haha - so fingers crossed. i keep updated untill problem solved
If you want a girlfriend who goes behind her boyfriend's back, it sounds like she's what you're looking for. If you want a girlfriend who is true to her man (until they break-up), maybe you should look elsewhere.