Long Distance... hopeless, need advice PLEASE.

So i have a serious girlfriend that i love livin somewhere really far (out of America)..... She still tries to keep in touch a lot, we talk like 4-5 times a week on the phone, online (with mic+cam) so we try to stay together...

but it kills me not knowing what shes doing, whos shes with, etc...
she might have friends that are like "long distance relationships never work, go out and have "fun", he will never know " u kno??? I know she does not want to cheat right off that bat, but i mean after a few monthes (im not going to see her for at least 4-5 more months) who knows??? who knows??? n then once she comes back to see me for a few monthes shes probably going to need to go back home AGAIN... i love her the most but idk what to do!! i cant live like this she also always says that she loves me the most, but lookin at the big picture idk whats gonna happen!! i can see myself marrying her, but idk how its all gonna work out, im in college right now, i want to either have a girlfreind or b single n go out n have fun, but w/ my girlfreind away for the majority of the year i dont really get EITHER, im trying to decide weather its good to break up or take a break, or just stay together n stay faithful....

PLEASe help and give me any kind of advice pleasee

 

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sorry, can't help you other than point out to you what you probably already know: only you and the girl can decide what to do with your relationship. You both need to think this over. Discuss it with her (if you've done this already then do it again), and then see how it goes.

 

Hey man. I totally feel you. I'm in the same boat myself! My girlfriend is out of the country as well. I haven't seen her over 8 months. Its heart wrenching. I totally understand why you are worried about who she is with and what she is doing. Long-distances test ANY relationship. By the sounds of it though, you two are extremely close and have something special.

Unfortunately, no one can really give great advice in this kind of situation. You've just got to follow your heart my friend. Do you really love this girl? Is she worth the pain and uncertainty?

The best I can say is keep in contact with one another, and keep involving the other in your life. It takes a lot of work, but long-distance relationships are. You'll be seeing her in about 5 months, so you guys have something to hold on to.

It's also worth talking to her about how you are feeling. A huge amount of understanding can be established if you have an adult conversation about where exactly you both see your relationship heading.

Beyond that man, all I can say is to trust that thing will work out like they are supposed to. If you love this girl enough, and things are meant to be, you guys will find a way. Good luck friend.

 

Right on point!