new problem, not as terrible

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by MsAmazo, Oct 15, 2004.

  1. MsAmazo

    MsAmazo Member

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    so this boy i've been digging lately.. this amazing, possible "soulmate" boy.. he and i hung out again the other night. it was great as usual. and you know what? he told me how he's into me too, feeling the same things i've been feeling lately. but see, he has a girlfriend. he's not sure what to do. and i just broke up with my boyfriend, vowing to be 'independent' and single for a while.
    but i don't think either of us want to pass up something so potentially amazing.
    and so?
     
  2. Therefore...

    Therefore... Antidentite

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    Go for it. If you're both into eachother a lot, then whay not get together?
     
  3. Elle

    Elle Senior Member

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    What do you have to loose? If he is willing to leave his girlfriend to explore life with you, then why not? But I wouldnt pressure him to do so or anything. If I were you I wouldnt even pursue it in the least untill they break up.......mostly out of respect for that relationship. Just let things happen naturally.........they will anyway.
     
  4. lyla

    lyla Member

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    I agree with elle, don't push him to break up with her. I've always wondered about people who break up with one person to be with another... while it has worked for some people I know, it has really hurt others. What will stop him from doing the same to you?

    hope it all works out well.
     
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