I can't seem to orgasm from sex

I have tried so many different things, but nothing seems to help me orgasm during sex. We've tried different positions, nothing. Clitoral stimulation, but nothing, the clitoral stimulation seems to like lose feeling, like its not as sensitive during sex as when i masturbate. I have no idea what to do, i really would like to be able to orgasm through sex, but i dont know what to do!!?? help please

 

Try a vibrator on your clit. It may go numb for a fewminutes but if you stick with it then it should start feeling good again. It does with me.

 

try doing it in a semi public place , like in a car at night in a home depot pkg lot away from others but close enough for you to see them....or something simular

 

i think that'd be just a bit too risky lol, we have in a car before in a secluded area, but that did nothing either like i really enjoy sex it feels great, but i just can't orgasm

 

i suppose i could give that a try lol, it will be so awkward buying one, but if it helps i'm willing to do it lol

 

Since I’ve never had orgasmic problems nor been female, I surely am not qualified to give you any advice. But, I recall hearing from someone somewhere that if your try too hard to orgasm, it just becomes more elusive.

I’ve been told that it is most effective to push all thoughts of orgasm out of your mind and focus 100% on enjoying the trip. If your whole world is the trip, then the destination is likely to sneak up and take you by surprise!



Have fun, go slowly, and play safely!

 

Here's the thing: Anything that has to do with your muffin and another person's baking equipment is sex. Does anyone think that Bill Clinton didn't have a sexual relationship with Monica, even though he probably never penetrated with anything except a cigar?

Sex is a total package deal -- talking, foreplay, insertion, oral, and snuggling afterward. So any way you get off is great.

Most of the women I've ever been with (and that's more than I care to admit) has enjoyed some sort of additional stimulation, and the "regular" dick-into-pussy deal orgasm has been fairly infrequent. Usually, one of us (me or my girlfriend) has reached down or around there to toy with her clit, or I've helped her finish doing oral. Other people have suggested adding an element of "adventure" and that's a good suggestion, too. Personally, I think more women need to be responsible for their own orgams. It's pretty easy to simply reach down while he's thrusting and tinker with yourself, isn't it? Or, ask him to. Or, get on top and take complete control, getting the angle and speed just right. It isn't HOW you get there; it's just that it's really, really fulfilling to climax with somebody there to enjoy it with you.

Sex, to my way of thinking, can be the most honest thing you can do with a partner. I hope this is helpful and I don't sound too lecture-y.

 

I have that problem too sometimes and it improves with practice... vaginal climaxes are a different feeling with me... try like someone all ready suggested and use a small vibrator on your clit during sex... best position I find for this is doggy(best postion for me for him to hit all the "zones") with my face down and ass in the air, while I use my bullet for more stimulation... Good luck

 

try taking a bit of e

it is a strong possibility that your not getting worked up enough before you have sex.
Have you been with the same guy for a long time?

 

dude..
just sit back relax..
dont think of anything but what your doing and how it feels...
mainly how it feels...
thats what i have do to an orgasm...

 

Focus on how it feels at all times during sex ... or wait until you can before you have sex.



Have fun, play safely, and focus on your gentals!

 

I'm thinking looong 4play and definitely him havng a good, deep tongue penetration, softly working up andmaybe combining that with 'G' spot manipulation. It is possible and works wonders. I don't know if they are separate orgasms, but they sure seem like it. He may have to forget himself for your sake 'til you've conqured what is probably an emotional hangup. Give it a try - what's to loose? May Venus be with you!