I haven't been conected for a while,but now I am back andI have 3 questions. 1st:How do pplz change mentaly after they have sex for the 1st time?How different will they become? 2nd:This is not a sex related question,but I think it fits the thread:Will humans remain mentally and emotionally the same as they were teenagers?(I am not talking about the fact that they will change because will face the world more.I am just asking about natural changes[if any]) 3rd:Were you scared before you had your first sexual encounter?And how did you felt after?Oh,and was it better,worse,or exactly how you expected?
1st: For me, I knew I found something I would love doing the rest of my life. I think it gave me more confidence too. 2nd: Sure you change. You become more mature as you get older. I still do crazy things now but I'm not as naive as I was. 3rd: Sure I was scared. I was worried I wouldn't be able to perform to her satisfaction. Part B: see #1. I thought it was wonderful at the time but now I know I was a clutz. I'm much better at it now
1. Depends on the type of person they are. My friends and I all had sex for the first time (with different people) around the same age 18-19. Some of them became a lot more outgoing and confident as a result. Some of them it had no effect on. Some of them became a little depressed for a while, that their first time wasnt what they expected. 2. No. You become less naive and you learn more about the world. You stop seeing things in such simple terms. You dont nessecarily become more responsible and straight laces, but you have more life experience to draw on, which makes you do things slightly different to when you were a teenager. 3. Not scared, because I was pissed (drunk) at the time. I was sort of pressured into it as well, so afterwards, I felt pretty disapointed and pissed off by the whole thing. Having sex for the first time, in the way I did, is really the only thing in my life that I regret.
