Hey everybody. Ok, so the other day, my girlfriend told me she has always wanted to try smoking weed. For some reason, I have a really big problem with the thought of her doing it. I don't know why. I feel like its going to change who she is or something I guess. I haven't ever done it and have never had the urge to do it either. I was just wondering if any of you guys have any stories like this, and if so what happened? Also is there anyway that I can get over my problem with her wanting to do it? Right now, I really don't want her to do it, but it feels wrong for me to hold her back from something she wants to do. Thanks :cheers2:
She will not change if she smokes weed. She will still be who she is. You should try smoking weed if you're so scared of what it will do to her. See for yourself. Think of it like being drunk on booze, but from a plant instead, and the drunkeness is different. That's all it is man. Don't let society fool you into thinking weed is somehow evil or something. It's a wonderful plant that would be hailed as a miracle were it discovered today.
Everytime I smoke weed I trip ballz. Weed changed me so much, I got interested in, believe it or not, but reading more american literature! It also tricked me into learning how to cook! Go figure! Weed makes me listen to music, non-stop and color, color, color. Sometimes when I smoke, I do daily activities, hard to belive, huh? It curbed my tongue, too. Just smoke weed, it isn't datura. :toetap05:
Life Lesson #1, from the book I wrote which only exists in my mind called "Life Lessons For People" . Never tell your boyfriend or girlfriend to do or not do anything outside of the realm of basic human nature. They are not your property to control and any feeling of negativity resulting from the actions of another person should be indicative of one's own lack of personal strength, a sense of self satisfaction, and a clear path to the road of insecurity and severe, crippling dependence.
Let her smoke, and if you are of the right mind and comfortable with yourself then you should smoke with her for the first time haha. Especially if you are going out your first time smoking together will be super special.
Well Id be glad to send you a signed copy friend! Just drop a few hits of acid, grab some crystalized DMT and meet me behind your local Wal Mart. We'll congeal minds and melt them together, and you can browse the lofty volumes of life lessons I've learned, but have yet to put into practice :cheers2:
Actually same here, I was kind of hoping you had the spirit molecule. Oh well, someday we can make this dream a reality man, some day :cheers2: And Josh, Im gonna go with lazyness :tongue:
I hear that brotha. What with all the effort I exert trying to avoid the sober mindstate, I hardly have energy left over to improve myself with.
Maybe you should smoke together. It might change her, but maybe in a good way. You will never know unless you try it. Life is about taking risks
OP- its not acid, or ecstasy, or (as was said) datura, or Quaaludes, its fucking pot. as long as you take it slow, and have on hand a variety of snacky foods and funny movies it should be fine. some people (i have met 2) are allergic/ have a bad reaction, but its rare. if you do try it, and don't like it, you don't have to do it again. its not heroin, and unless you have absolutely no will power whatsoever it won't take control of your life. in any case, you can express your worries to her, but you have no right to tell her what she can and can't do to her body. its her choice.