Bored out of my mind

So im sitting in the room with my boyfriend and his one friend. Ive notice every time that they get together my boyfriend doesnt even notice im here, he barely even talks to me and when i try talking to him he acts like im acting dumb. My one friend was suppose to come down but her kid got sick so she had to stay home. Then i was going to crash at my other friend's house but she is still at the bar she was suppose to get off at 12 but the guy called in sick.
I got really pissed off because I was out in the kitchen and when i came back in they were outside. I thought they were just smoking a cig and i didnt really want one so i didnt go out. Come to find out they were getting stoned and he didnt even care that i wasnt. He does this all the time...yet when its just me and him here he doesnt smoke unless i want to 2.
He is really sweet and talks to me just not when his one friend around. When he is around his other friends he still talks to me and makes sure i get to smoke. Its just this one friend.
Im thinking about just leaving.
Idk what to do

 

hmmmmmmm

is this guy a special sort of friend?

or did you and this other guy not get along?

Edit: does he not see this guy that often?

 

He comes down once a week. Its not that I dont like him its just they sit here and talk to each other like i try talking but every time i do my boyfriend looks at me like im dumb

 

Sounds like he doesnt know how to balance his friendship and his relationship with you, it is a common immaturity thing for guys. He probably feels about you the way he portrays it when it is just you and him. For whatever reason he worries about what his friend thinks of his relationship with you, i dont know how to fix that but hopefully he'll wake up.

Of course i could be completely wrong just my 2 cents.

 

dead on..

my suggestion is get your own pot,and then let them do their thing. enjoy the time alone,get baked and take a bubble bath,read a book..

i mean all girls want and need ?me? time so why not take this as a opportunity rather than a problem..

 

Oh i did have my me time....smoked a lil with them at like 2am and went to sleep because i really need my sleep...havent been sleeping good at all.

 

clearly your boyfriend and his friend are packin' the fudge.

 

You need to let your boyfriend have his 'man time', or fag time if what I'minmyunderwear says is true.

 

if she'd stop being such a bitch they would let her in on the fun.


its a clear cut case. I see it all the time.