crush on my boyfriend's brother

so i've been dating this guy David for a little over a year, and I've always kinda thought his hetero younger brother (who's still just a little older than me) was gorgeous. Bryan (david's brother) always kinda flirted with me in that "I'm straight, but like to pretend to be gay" kind of way, but now that me and David moved out of his mom's house, every time I see Bryan, his "flirting" has gotten a lot worse, and it's made it even harder for me. Like, the other day, Bryan came over to my house, and was out on my balcony. I was in the kitchen, and when I turned around towards him, he was on the other side of the glass licking his lips at me. My friend Kelsey saw him doing that, and he quit for a second, then put his hand up next to his face to shield it from Kelsey, and kept sticking his tongue out, licking his lips. Another time, right in front of David no less, he came up to me and asked "so when are we gonna go out, Andy?" and he grabbed my ass. The entire year that I've known Bryan, he's always seemed super curious about my homosexuality, asking me if I've ever given head to anyone, and when I said yes, he offered me $50 to blow him. He said he was just kidding, but the way he was looking at me, i dunno......and my last experience was when he asked me for a cigarette, and I said "what are you gonna do for me?" so he got on his knees in front of me, and pulled down my pants enough to see the top of my penis before he stopped. Then he just kinda giggled at stood up then winked at me.
So, I guess the point of this post was to see, based on the experiences I wrote of, what do you think is going on with Bryan, and what do you think I should do with him? I can't think of any ways to check and see if he's really straight, or bi curious or what.....

 

Maybe just simply ask him?

Or, you could try touching him...you said he's grabbed your ass before, grab his, or his package and see if he goes with it. That could go either way though...

 

man that shits weird, dont be going after your boy's brother.

maybe his bro's gayness is rubbing off on him, and the closest thing to test the waters on that isn't incest is you.

does your boy know about it?

 

Sounds like a weird situation.

Why do you care if the brother is gay- You have a boyfriend. If it becomes an issue perhaps you should tell your boyfriend or confront the brother.

 

oh no no no. i think his brother's cute, but i would never date him or even fuck him. i absolutely love david, all the way. but i just find it strange how his brother is normally a regular straight dude, but when he's around me, he loves to play gay and get all touchy feely. Of course, I've tried straight up axing him, but he denied everything go fig. I've ALMOST grabbed his junk before cuz he axed me to jokingly, but iz gonna step it up a notch lol. I just wish he'd act all gay like that around his friends and shit...he's so different around them...

 

you kind of sound slutty about it.. grr. i'll never be able to trust men.

 

Very weird situation indeed, but I must say - it sounds like Bryan is DEFINITELY either bi or just really curious. Just talk to him about it. Does what he does bother you? If not, then just talk to him about it as I said and ask him to stop.

 

uh, couldn't it be that he really is meaning all of it as a joke? he probably wouldn't be able to pull off such stunts with his other friends (cause they're not gay) but because you are gay he can do it. if you two are on very good terms with each other he might just like to joke about it in your company, just as an alternative way to have fun and to express that he has nothing against gay ppl.

i have a friend like that. we go through a gamut of homosexually loaded joking when we get together because we both find it funny and we know the other won't misunderstand it. he's 100% straight.

 

ew slutty?
no.
all i meant was brian is cute, he's my bf's brother, and i think it's weird that he flirts with me.
don't get me wrong, i looove it when people flirt with me.....*yes, feed my ego*, but i'd never cheat on david....

and i talked to david about it last night, because you got me thinking meridianwest, and apparently brian's been acting gay like that for a looong time, and we talked to brians lifetime buddy brad, and brad said brian's always acted gay like that to him, too. and brad is 101% straight.
like i said i've tried asking brian about it, but he just blows it off every time.....i wanna set a trap and trick him into admitting his bi at least, but i can't figure out how tho lol...

 

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Cheers Glen.

 

^^but of course. you'll never find be able to find better edge-of-your-seat, white-knuckle drama than in a gay forum ;P

 

I'm not so sure setting a trap to get him to admit he's at least bi is a good tactic, it could blow up in your face and cause all sorts of problems. do take care if you go through with this course of action.