You just have to meet someomne who is honest. I only let guys spend a lot of money on me if I loved them and thought we had a serious future. If not it's like fraud. I only want to be remembered as a good friend and person that people got to spend time with-not a bad investment . Just wait until you know you are serious. Make wise investments in women. A woman that wants you to spend money on her isn't a bad thing. If you had a daughter would you want her to date someone who took her nice places? Or would you want her to be with Homey G Miester who invites her over for bong rips in his living room and never takes her anywhere?
My mom used to always give me a small gift whenever I got good grades at school, or did something good at work, or anything worth recognizing. Also when I was having a bad day. It could be something from a chocolate, to a pretty notebook to write in, to a cool bag, anything. I miss my mom.
I never usually buy myself anything, although I do spend a lot of money going out with my boyfriend, but I don't count that. I bought myself new shoes since my old ones were hurting my feet and a winter coat...but that's all since I started my job in July. Both were out of necessity, but they were both nice and of good quality. Oh, and, once when I got off of work and was walking home, I found two dollars on the ground and decided that instead of saving it I'd blow it on a peanut butter and chocolate ice cream cone considering I had just finished a 9 hour shift and had sold like a motherfucker. :cheers2:
Omg Rachel, thank you! I was desperatley trying to come with another youlls joke, and you found it for me! Youllsually! :cheers2: :cheers2: I owe you one haha
I usually buy gifts for myself near my birthday and christmas (They are in the same month) I feel like giving myself some yummy sushi for dinner tonight.
i rarely "gift myself" like that. i generally just get and do what i want as long as i can afford it. occasionally i'll splurge on something nice, but i consider that to be on the same level as my evening bong, only on a substantially longer schedule. if i have a hard day, or accomplish something special, the sense of accomplishment is sufficient reward for me. if i were to go out and buy something i don't need at that point, it would probably feel like it cheapens the accomplishment to me.