Do you think orgasm is something that everybody is having except you ?

Do all women think orgasm is common thing that most women experience ?

From the experience I've had its not that common for women to have an orgasm, so why do I get the feeling from these posts that orgasm is common, and there is something wrong with you if you haven't experienced an orgasm ?

Your not born as a skilled lover, its probably something you learn along the way if you bother to learn at all.

I read a book about caressing women to orgasm, so thats what I have been doing ever since.

But of course its not that easy to get a women to orgasm in fact its bloody hard and most women don't have an orgasm for whatever reason ?

So please don't don't humiliate yourself because you didn't have an orgasm today.

Who knows what the future holds ....

 

well i would say that there either a lot of people telling lies and making me feel inferior or that most women dont have them and i fit into the latter group.

 

There are some women who can't figure out how to orgasm.
But, everyone CAN.
They just have to find their way to do it.
To say most girls can't orgasm is idiotic.
It just takes the right touch and know how.

 

Hey KatelynPaige Im in central florida as well hows is going?

 

This is exactly correct, unfortunatley we are not born with the knowledge to be great lovers, its something that takes lots of practice and hopefully one doesn't get traumatised during the learning stage, otherwise it may snowball it to a really big problem, but then of course it may not.

I think reading the right book can be advantageous for men.

Porn is not where one should learn how to make love to a women.

After all its commerce, paid actors that get paid to fuck, fucking may not even be pleasant for a women, in fact I think its degrading for women.

Making love to a women is what men should be doing, its not feminine to make love to a women its really important if you want that relationship to last and be benificial for both the man and the women.

 

How many women here are swayed heavily by what they perceive as normal ?

For example if you thought your friends were having an orgasm whould you be tempted to say that you were also having an orgasm even if that wasn't quite true ?

 

Phh... who knows. I think correct stimulation can result in orgasm, but I'm not a woman, so I wouldn't know.

 

Anyone else ever wonder about this guy's ridiculous fascination with the female orgasm?

 

All the girls Ive been with have been able to have orgasms. A few of them, I gave them their first orgasm either with my tongue or my fingers. It just takes the right touch, a lotta love, and persistence!

 

The problem is that people (men also) think there is a 'normal.' For X sake, men and the damn penis fixation! Look elsewhere in this forum, "how big is ok," "my g/f doesn't think my cock is....." "JO is a waste of cock time," etc. The dick is a dick. Good for femal orgasm about 22% of the time. Fingers are really good, and with a woman who enjoys sex, really enjoys it (not as a 'duty') the tongue is supreme. Women who think 'faking' is normal, 'cause mom said so, don't have to repeat mom's sorry sex life. Just forget 'normal' and go for what feels good. Partner won't agree? Drop him/her. Life's too short! Sex is sex is sex. There is no normal sex. Their is procreation. Then there is whoopee. Stop listening to a. porn, b. moralists, c. over serious discussions. Do listen to your own madness, your groin, and your partner. And, er....ah....Bob, introduce me to your lady friend - or at least her mom or sister! :cheers2:

 

You wouldn't say that if you been on the end of one.

 

Where did I say can't ?

Besides that one point, I agree with everything you have said.