How many times a week can you have anal?

How many times a week can you have anal, before it starts to rly hurt your asshole?

 

the most I've had would be about 3-4 times a day for weeks. Never had any problems with pain.

 

I did it every night for 3 week, and she never complain about any pain etc.

 

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wouldn't it start to hurt less?

 

Having anal sex on a regular basis actually does the opposite of hurting your asshole as it prevents it from "sinching" back up tightly. In other words it is looser more often. That is if it is done right, thus there is no irritation and subsequent swelling, which would make later experiences worse. And if you're (referring to whomever, here) new to receiving anal sex then you won't be able to "just take it" until after you've experienced it a couple times, or if you just don't care about the discomfort.

But having anal sex on a regular basis is not advisable. Unfortunately just as with drugs, most people who do anal sex to any extent have no clue how much problems and how much damage they can do their body on all levels, and namely in the long term. Enemas are even less advisable in the sense of a regular basis sort of thing. To further put this into perspective, there's an old saying by doctors no less that goes along the lines of something like, "Death starts in the colon." And the saying does indeed have a lot of merit.

The main reason why regular anal sex is not advisable (especially for beginners, and I am talking about regular as say more than two separate occasions per week, for enemas only once) is because almost completely regardless of how hard or soft you go about it, you will to some degree inhibit and disrupt electrolyte absorption by your intestines. To make a long story short, the first thing that would happen that would indicate to you that you're having too much anal sex or just doing it wrong is loss of weight; this can happen within a rather short time frame, like less than a month. Further down the line you have disturbances in appetite, in which nothing you eat ever seems right. Then you have stuff like constant vision problems, heart rhythm problems and weakness, issues with immune system, fever and so on and so forth.

Regular enemas are not advisable at all because they literally sweep through your entire intestinal tract, which can easily cause huge electrolyte disturbances, especially if they are in one way or the other done improperly, either through method or equipment or both. They are fine, say, once a week as they help clean out all the terrible crap that most of us put into our bodies, and they also stimulate and relieve stress on the body, but to do it so often that it like becomes this "thing" for you, or like a secondary way to take a shit, is very bad.

With that said, anal sex here and there is no big deal. To be honest, in my opinion, if you and your partner don't mind, then you don't really even need to do enemas, but in this case you absolutely have to take a big piss when you're done, regardless of gender and regardless of role, as this ensures that your urinary tract does not harbor any feces and become infected and whatnot.

Two simple things to avoid with anal sex is friction and tearing. The latter is easily avoided. In the case of the former, friction, especially once you get beyond the anus, tells you that you're doing it wrong. Friction is essentially scraping, and scraping the walls of the intestine irritates them and ultimately inhibits their proper function to various extents. And also, there is no errogneous tissue inside the intestines, only at the anus, thus the sexual gain in that area is merely one of mentality and emotion -- albeit potentially rather great -- not physical.

So to tie this all up, I would say two seperate times a week, tops, such as Tuesdays and Saturdays, and for whoever does enemas if at all, once per week. The other benefit here is that the receiver's ass will have time to recoup and be fresher and as a result they will experience more pleasure each time.

Anyway hope that helped.

 

Well this is what happened. I had anal with my girlfriend on Wednesday. Then we were going to try it on Thursday. When I first put it in, she said it hurt horribly and I had to take it out. Can anyone help?

 

yes, search my post history for a big post that i just made about how to avoid this, along with some other stuff, in another topic in this forum. it should definitely be what you're looking for.

 

Get her horny first, Use lots of lube, Use your fingers first, Lube your dick and lube her ass again, Go slow, Remind her to relax.

Check her ass first because you may of ripped her the first time and it might need time to heal.

 

if he "ripped her" there would be blood and regardless of how much it would in all likelihood be rather apparent

it's also virtually impossible to do any ripping of the ass with a penis unless it's so long and stiff that you can actually slam it through the curve in the wall at the end of the rectum or something along those lines

 

I was talking about around the opening of the ass, its common for a dry penis to make hairline rips when the skin is stretched apart.

 

I used Lotion as lube...So it wasn't dry.

 

where'd you derive this info from? it's difficult to drive a metal spike through most of the skin on the body let alone create enough friction and force with the head of a penis to rip an anus. no one who's not on heavy drugs or in a blind rage or who has severe mental problems would go so far as to ever allow this to occur, be it the giver or the reciever, as it would take tremendous force, persistance and pain which would arrive long before any tearing ever occured, anyway. and how many people are dumb enough to do anal totally dry in the first place? it would become apparent within 10 seconds that that's a bad idea.

well honestly i question the legitimacy of all of this. nevertheless i like getting the information out there one way or the other. most lotion contains either straight up alcohol or some other ingredient such as some form of citrus which would make lacing the rectum with it like dumping fire ants into it, just like if you were to get some in your eye or in a cut or if you had just shaved your crotch and ran some across it.

other problem here is that, again, most lotions are not remotely natural, i.e. they are rather toxic and are on the long list of things that should absolutely not enter your ass ever.

 

We have anal sex as often as my husband wants it.

 

Usually 3 to 5 times a week with the wife, often more.

 

The way my x-fiancee got used to it, and she started to absolutely love every moment of it, is by doing it herself first. She got used to muscle control and how often she goes to the bathroom, because she's not all about the dirty deeds, and then once she got used to doing it herself to the point she can just slide either the toy she had or a couple of her own fingers in, she let me participate by using the toy on her and so on. After a while of playing like that, she thought she was ready for the real deal. We did it slowly, but not in slow motion. I was not able to finish as she was done. After a while of that, she was able to let me swan dive right in, do my thing, and she enjoyed every second of it, from beginning to end, and she even had some outrageous orgams to suit.

She also told me getting used to it on her own didn't allow room for problems going to the bathroom. She wasn't backed up for days. I find that to be the most serious problem with people having anal sex, is the "clogging" so to speak. Start off slow, and do only what you want to do, and your partner needs to understand this, and you will be fine.

 

Three or four. I've never tried more than that in one week.

 

Been having it fairly regularly, 6-10 times a week for years with no ill-effects..

 

Ahhh no. I hurt my ex-girl once. Some sort of tearing inside her. Be careful and use lots of lube.

 

I have had anal every day for weeks then no anal for weeks,,,never had a problem with it ..very exciting to do it too