I saw something that made me sad/angry today

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Dave_techie, Nov 13, 2008.

  1. Psychedelic Rocker

    Psychedelic Rocker Member

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    Well do more...what can I tell ya?
     
  2. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    Personally I Would Have Offered The Money And Covered It With A Big Smile..

    Big Smiles Tend To Cover Even The Most Embarassing Situations..

    One Of My Favourite "Feel Goods"...:)

    Is When I Am In A Restaurant And There Is Another Diner There Who Has Seen "Better Days"...

    I Go To The Cashier...

    Not Only Pay For Their Meal...

    But Also A Glass Of Wine To Go With It...:cheers2:

    Did This Only A Few Days Ago In My Favourite Chinese..

    And Today The Owner Told Me...

    Not Only Did The "Old Dear" Appreciate The Kind Thought...

    But She Clearly Had Tears In Her Eyes.....:)

    Love doing This...

    Have Been Doing It For About 18 Years...

    If The Opportunity Presents Itself To You...

    Try It..

    Tis A Warm And Fuzzy Feelgood Feeling I Assure You...[​IMG]



    Cheers Glen.
     
  3. Dave_techie

    Dave_techie I call Sheniangans

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    upon thinking about it later, I think I should have offered him a $5 under the pretext of "Hey, sir, I think you dropped this"

    which might have been the best option.
     
  4. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    .

    [EDIT]...After Six Attempts Trying to Lodge A Post During A T-Storm..

    I Surrender To The Elements......


    Cheers Glen.
     
  5. prissbaby

    prissbaby creepy

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    that would have been really nice of you.

    and I know what you mean Dave. I have a soft spot for old people, and always always always feel bad for them, for some reason or another.

    especially when they are driving really slow, and I get pissed off about "this asshole in front of me"... come to find out it's an old guy doing 20mph.

    I could slap myself every time.
     
  6. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

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    buy them what they need next time. It doesn't have to be in the form of money.

    Pay it forward!
     
  7. Cate8

    Cate8 Senior Member

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    Maybe if you were all "Hey! Can i get that for you?" And just pick up the tomatos and then go pay for them for him, instead of handing him cash. Well anyway. Next time you witness something similar, you will be able to try a different method then watching and thinking. (Which is a good thing)
     
  8. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

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    When people are really old their hips usually break first and then they fall. My mom told me (she's a nurse) and also doctors have told me the same thing when I worked in a nursing home.
     
  9. Tree-Hugger

    Tree-Hugger The Chainsaw

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    Dave next time you can buy the tomatoes and offer to help put his bags in his car and you can slip the tomatoes in with the other bags.
     
  10. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

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    exactly....most times you have to watch and think before you realize that you can do something. its just hard to take a creative approach to something when you are in it. Reflection always is good.
     
  11. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    You sound like one heck of a guy Dave techie. The world needs more caring people like you.
     
  12. Jaitaiyai

    Jaitaiyai Cianpo di tutti capi

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    They discarded me first.
    I dont have many happy memories with my grandparents. Two dont talk to me, One cant understand me, One i occasionally chat on the phone with. :cool:

    Otherwise, I rarely come into contact with older generations.
     
  13. Dave_techie

    Dave_techie I call Sheniangans

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    chill with other peoples grandparents, some of them are awesome
     
  14. Jaitaiyai

    Jaitaiyai Cianpo di tutti capi

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    Like who? I dont know where they are. Who they are.

    I dont even know if theyre racist.
     
  15. Dave_techie

    Dave_techie I call Sheniangans

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    there are a few kinds of old folks homes

    you want the ones where people stick their relatives to forget about them (as opposed to where they send them to die, or where they go because they want to escape their families)
     
  16. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    i had an elderly woman behind me in line purchase my entire cart of groceries for me. i was gonna bounce a check for them, kai was hungry. they wouldn't take the check. she just covered it and waved it off. i cried.
     
  17. Jaitaiyai

    Jaitaiyai Cianpo di tutti capi

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    That sounds harsh.
     
  18. Dave_techie

    Dave_techie I call Sheniangans

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    society doesn't work like it's supposed to.
     
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