I am in a long-term monogamous relationship as a bisexual male, going on two years this halloween. (well, she calls it two years.. we broke off for about two months inbetween) I feel like something is missing, and I feel it just gets stronger everyday! I want a boyfriend =[ my girl is a really really REALLY jealous person though(like.. I can't go anywhere alone without her asking if girls will be there and having to reassure her that nothing will happen) I don't just want to cheat on her. what do I do? will this ever go away?
Be single and date... It's less of a headache. When you're ready to "settle down" in your later years, at least you'll have enough mental and physical experiences to be prepared for monogamy.... Providing you choose the right person to be with.
You're a fool for going back to her... Either you're just bicurious or playing games with us. Not to say that you wouldn't go behind her back and get you a little action from another guy, but if you're the monogamous type, then why be in a relationship when you can have all the tail out there you want? From both guys and girls... If you are aware that she gets upset when you look at other women, how do you think she'd react to finding out you've been with another guy? You're either into that kind of danger, or you like playing mind games with people. Because all of this could be solved if you two just remained separate. And I know having steady pussy around is always good, but at the same time you have to remember you are your own person, and you're capable of doing so many things. Being 19 doesn't mean that she's the only chick (or a guy) you'll bang forever, or the only one that you'll come across in life... Be who you are, and don't be affraid to explore who you are, and your sexuality. But do it on your own as a single guy, and not drag in someone as your safety net.
how am I a fool?? You don't know anything about our relationship other then i'm half faggot and we've had a little trouble -_-
If you have a problem telling her that you have other tendancies, and are affraid that she will dump you because of it, then yes, you are a fool for seeking normalcy with this person. If you manned up and told her how you have these urges, then it would be up to her to decide whether or not to be with you... And not holding her hostage in that relationship with your lies and deceit.
she knows my sexuality and knows that I wonder what it'd be like to be with another guy.. there are no lies or deceit.. don't jump to conclusions
If she's that jealous about you just going somewhere alone, I'd question if its even really a loving relationship, love isn't jealous. Plus you're having these small breakups during your two year relationship isn't healthy, so I'd just call it quits, explore your desires and move on from there.
you are not in a deacent relshionship with all thies brake-ups - just call it quits and move on - hit the scean, go on dates etc and see how it goes form there.
