The Truth about Female Orgasms

Wouldn't your feelings be hurt when you discover that your lover has been lying to you?

 

Agreed!!

 

no, i would try all that much harder to ask how he likes his penis wanked. or vise versa. me and my boyfriend have talked about how to pleasure each other the way we like it. its part of being together. i dont mind, it works out great for us!

 

All I know is I hit it right cause what goes around comes around

However I was bestowed with a fairly large size so I normally get the its to deep or it feels like its hitting my stomach.

Dont really know if some have had to fake because of that dont particularly care
its nice that they didnt just jump off

 

I agree with sophieclair and sarahrei, it's not going to help your sex life if you lie about having an orgasm.

OK lying will avoid hurting his/her pride or feelings but long term it just creates another problem and stops him/her realising that he/she is doing something that is less than satisfactory.

 

maybe people on here are more sexually open but i have a shit ton of female friends who cant cum. maybe two of them who are able but not regularly and they enjoy sex, just fake all the fuckin time.

dont get mad at me! yes i was a tiny bit cynical the day i wrote this (pretty obvious huh lol) but its true from my experience and its bugged me for a loooong time. but i guess i dont know every female in the world haha.

and women can fake the muscle contractions. just an fyi.

love y'all. didnt mean to upset!

 

My ex-wife had an interesting take on her first orgasm that might be worth sharing. She said that she was basically not capable of reaching climax for her entire life, but enjoyed having sex a great deal. Like many women, she knew that men liked thinking that she climaxed, so she got into the habit of faking (er, exaggerating) it.

Anyway, we met, and she wasn't completely honest about it, saying she had an occasional orgasm, but not often. Then -- surprise, surprise -- she finally came with me. She said that she was pretending to be really excited, really let her imagination go in the process, and suddently -- pow! As she said at the time, she "didn't intend to." As I recall, she just relaxed, put her legs around me, and just went with it in a way different than she had ever before.

We had great sex for all the time we were married as long as she wasn't uptight. A glass of wine went a long, long way for years.

Goes to show that the mind might be the most important component of the sex act.

 

With that attitude, you are well on the way to becoming one of the world's great lovers!









Keep it up! Use your hands!

 

I'm glad you told the truth, I can't stand **** lies it makes me want to puke.

 

I would be very upset if she faked it... There have been times when I couldn't get off... I don't have to tell her... because its apparent... I would rather have her just be honest.

 

Faking is stupid... it's probably the biggest slap in the face you can give a guy.

It's just as bad, if not worse, than simply lying about something important straight to his face.

Actually it's the same thing really, you're telling him that he gets you off, which is obviously a lie since you're faking in the first place.

Some girls need to learn how to open their mouths and say something, the RIGHT way.


geez.... rant over

 

I've heard of girls who have faked it but I am not one of em. I never have to fake an orgasm, if I dont orgasm I dont feel the need to fake it -I'll just allow him to get off. I might be a bit of an actress sometimes but I dont fake my orgasms.

 

:hurray: I completely agree!!

 

I've only had a problem with one bf, he put way too much pressure on me, really bugged me,...I've had orgasms just kissing a man before (okay one time) but pressure is a killer