Would smoking about 5 a day for the past 3 months cause any problems with getting an erection? Ive been having sex about 2-3 times a day for the past month as well. Plus blowjobs/wanking so thats probably averaging about 3 'orgasms' a day. Is this too much? Had sex once earlier, was fine. Went for a second time about half an hour later and it just wasnt happening. Couldnt get it up for shit, was very stressful and killed the mood for both of us a bit. Not seeing her tomorrow. Maybe i should just leave my dick alone for a day at least. Any ideas why that happened?
Once you start worrying about getting it up, it tends to stay down. Will take her, lots of patience, and you relaxing and just enjoying your naked time with her to get things back in shape. Let her know you need her help! If you've got a macho streak, DROP IT, or you'll have a much harder time. All these ED commercials get us thinking the trouble starts with old men. Not! As for your sex with yourself, when I was your age I functioned at about that rate and though a bit sore from time to time things went ok. And I smoked. If you think you should lay off sex for a while, do it. Can't hurt anything. Maybe no intercourse would be the way to go, but spend some naked time with her and if you're really hormone influenced (raging?) let her get you off without dipping the old wick. But the biggest problem may be the worrying - she can really help there by showing she likes being with you even when you are not a sex fiend. Enjoy her! good luck, dude.