Just a question for all you guys who are into anal with there girlfriends. What would you say if your girlfriend wanted to ram you up the ass with a strap on dildo? what would your response be? If your will in to dish it out, shouldn't you be willing to take it?! LOL. I just ask cause I'm a guy, and I'm not into anal. Nothin was meant to go up the poop shoot, in my oppinion. Different strokes for different folks though!
It has happened to me and I thought it was only fair to say yes. It was a very intense experience and will be very fun even the first time if you educate yourself about anal sex. Guys can have one of the most powerful orgasms ever while on the recieving side of anal sex. It is amazing how many are just homophobic and won't ever to get experience that. Oh well, their loss...
WoW I really want to fuck my GFs ass she is so fucking hot We tried anal once with a condom and no lube. It snaped and hurt her anus and now she's scared to try again. Will it hurt the first time for her? Sorry I got off topic but Im not a homo faggit who takes it in the ass. A girl wearing a strap-on doing you is more than a little awkward and almost to the point of gay. Will you let a trans fuck you next?
I'd never let something go up my ass, and I fail to see how thats unfair. I don't force girls to do it, its only if they enjoy it also. And that bullshit about "if you don't like it up the ass, you're homophobic". What about girls who don't enjoy it? Its just a matter of taste. And then on the opposite side we have the "faggit (which I guess is similar to a faggot) haters". Who gives a shit if someone is gay or trans? It shouldn't affect your life at all (Unless of course you are gay and trans). And liking it up the ass has nothing to do with being gay. I've known gay guys who don't like it, and straight guys who do. But of course this has all been stated many times before, so I'll stop. And yes loveallie1, for many people it does hurt the first, or first couple, times. Some people it never stops hurting, so if she is afraid, don't pressure her.
Thanks and sorry if I affended anyone who read or will read my earlier post. Could I get more info. On pain status? She is really small and have 8" umm hurt alot?
It all depends on the girl. Though I've found the pain can be somewhat reduced if you start with something smaller and "warm it up" first (Though this might not need to be done as much once she is more used to it. Or maybe it will). If you are both comfortable with it, you can start with your fingers (lube is ALWAYS a good idea with anal), and then move up to a small vibrator or dildo, preferably a softer one with a little "give" to it. And when you go in, go slow at first and be prepared to stop. Though all the preparing might be somewhat annoying, it decreases your chance of hurting her, which is a good thing.
I'm against toys but lube is very logical so I need some. I have begun with 2 fingers so far. I'm kinds scared too. I really love her. It terrifies me when she feels pain. We are eachothers first everything.
Well, if she feels pain, stop. There are more than enough ways to the dirty with someone that you can afford to give up one.
true but omg I find anal so hot. If I can't have then I atleast wish she would let me finish in her mouth. Owell she perect in every other way and would never give her up. Today is actually our 9 months of being together. I am so gaga over her. She my trophy girl
Amen its not gay and if you are afraid of anal sex for that reason than you don't deserve the experiance
First off, girls have the holes and guys have the dick, it would be a little weird for me to take it up the ass because a girl does not have a dick, therefore a strap on would be used and what pleasure would she get? If I got any pleasure it would be weird. That is like saying guys have mouths just like girls, so should us guys start sucking dicks too? Because girls have mouths and they sucks dick, just like guys and girls both have asses. Should I go out and kiss another man too? Because a man has lips just like a girl does, the point is, I'm not gay, and a girls ass can be hot and a turn on and sexy, a mans ass does not turn me on what so ever. Just like a girls face can be sexy and hot, a man's face will never be hot to me because again I am not gay! As far as the ass being an exit only and it's not meant for a penis, is a mouth meant for a penis? No, a mouth is meant for eating and breathing and talking. Are boobs meant for grown men to suck on as a sex object? No they were meant to feed babies, not pleasure men. Is cum meant to swallow? No cum is meant for no other reason than making babies, so the point is, just because something was not designed for that purpose does not make it wrong to do. Otherwise you would live life doing just penis to vagina and missionary the rest of your life and foreplay would be out of the question. No thanks, I don't want a boring sex life and to do exactly what sex was meant for would eventually get boring.
My wife always uses a vibrating anal toy to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Really intensifies my orgasms. We also exjoy role reversal using a strap on. She gives me a handjob while she fucks my ass. Our strap on has a small vibrator in the harness to stimulate her clitoris. We cum together. Guys if you don't do these things you don't know what you are missing.
Gay guy here. The ultimate Irony is its the extra macho big gay guy type thats best at giving, the average sized straight guy wouldnt be man enough even if he did try to go there. As for recieving, same thing, bigger guys will find it easier. There is a class of gay guys that are just too macho to be straight
Well, to start, my girlfriend is COMPLETELY 100% against anal. Which is an issue for me, but hey, I love her to death so what can ya do? Back on topic, I would never let a strapon inside of me, but..... If she told me all I had to do was take a dildo the size of my dick in my ass, and then she would put hers out? OF COURSE!! In a heartbeat! I mean, if you really want it, you'll do what it takes...