My girlfriend can't/ wont give me oral

Ive been with my girlfriend for a year now and she hasnt performed oral on me. Ive done it for her and she has done it in the past for someone else but she wont do it for me, this makes me feel like absolute crap and it gets me down ALOT when i think about it. It feels like im second best.

Im really jealous and i need a solution, can anyone please give some advice ?????

 

Have you talked to her about it? Really if she doesn't want to do it then don't force her but also don't feel obligated to eat her out.

 

Dump her.

 

Has she said WHY she won't?

Most girls don't like it. Haha I don't mind.. but my mom (yeah we're really open about this stuff) says she won't do it because it makes her feel trashy. Haha

 

Yeah i mean we have talked aout and she knows how much it gets to me

She says that she really wants to do it for me but she just cant

I wont make her do anything and i certainly wont force her. Its just not fair that some little twat got it his way but yet she wont give it to me, someone she actually does love.

 

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Stop giving her oral until she decides to give you oral, it's selfish to want oral and not give it. Try to find out exactly why she won't give oral for you, especially if she's done it to guys in the past.

 

I've had similar problems in the past, so I know how much it sucks. Especially if the other guy was a complete loser.

You keep saying she "can't," though. Any idea why? Is something actually stopping her physically?

 

Well she has said that shes not ready but how can she say that if she did this for the other guy ? ? ?

I dont know if she is just saying this so that she wont have to do it

 

Well, it's possible that she wasn't ready for it when she actually did it, and now she regrets it.

The only other thing I can think of is that it was a bad experience.

"I dont know if she is just saying this so that she wont have to do it"

Or that. Like I said, I've been there too, and it sucks.

 

Love isn't about how many times you can cum in your lovers face.

I married my lover who didn't like to give oral. Doesn't mean she doesn't like me just she likes to kiss and snuggle my cock and she doesn't like to struggle with something she feels she is not very expert at. Many women feel they are not good at oral and so they are shy or embarrased to try. She will still put you in her mouth sometimes.

Don't hold out on her to be a selfish prick. Just keep giving if you like to and then maybe someday she will give. It's generally called 'giving' head, not stealing head, or some such other thing.

 

:hurray:

 

...I think what's bothering him is that she did it for some prick she didn't care about but won't do it for him..........

 

Maybe she is afraid it will disappoint him. Also some girls worry that their gag reflex will come into play. How many women want to puke on someone you love? I think that by him putting pressure on the situation she is gonna start to resent him for it. Maybe the prick forced her to do it? You have to wonder what happened the first time she did it, maybe thats why she doesn't want to do it.

 

damn. a year is a long asssss time to be with someone and not get dome. stick it in her mouth while she's sleeping then slap her face real hard to wake her up and see what happens. film it for us too i bet it'd be the new internet video hype.

 

Yeah, i mean i wouldnt be as bothered if she hadnt done it before, it bothers me that she has done it as a 1 night stand sorta thing but wont for her boyfriend who "she loves more than anything"

 

People tend to let their walls down more in a one night stand, you have nothing to lose, you wont see that person again.

There may be something in the way that your approaching the subject with her that makes her too uncomfortable to do it. I know personally if my boyfriend wouldn't shut up about something that he wanted me to do in bed he wouldn't be getting it. Not because I didn't want to, but because he didn't respect me enough to leave it alone once I said I wasn't ok with it.

 

Maybe you have a weird smell or something and she's too polite to tell you to take a bath.

 

It's a penis. You'd have to be one nasty fuck for it to smell.

 

Trust me, penis's can stink.