I have a very long distance relationship, for the last 4yrs in December, with a guy I know absolutely nothing about, and have never met...mainly because the one opportunity we did have recently - he never took it, and then vanished from the chatline we always speak on, for about 5 weeks! Anyway - before you start questioning this relationship, I never get asked on dates or whatever, in like 33yrs, and so don't hold hope on the old adage "there's someone out there for you" so I'm making do with what I can get. And yes - the lack of physicality bugs me like hell...and the fact he refuses to tell me anything about him, apart from the fact he's a lot older and is single - but in my situation beggars can't be choosers...ok massive explosive rant thats bubbling under the surface here, is now going to be diverted! LOL! Anyway, I read erotic stories to him regularly, late at night, which I love doing and he enjoys too. Last night - he set me a challenge. He requested a hot erotic story, set in the Victorian period, preferably England, but that is only a small detail. I have been reading internet stories for ages now, and I will soon need to sort myself out due to porn overload! lol - but I still haven't found the right story. Its driving me nuts! Anyone know where I can find a hot erotic story set in the Victorian era, so I can have a good time with him tonight ??? Thanks
Yea - tried there, but no luck in finding anything suitable....read heaps though, but there isn't a historical type category, so you just gotta keep reading and reading........I need a cold shower now! lol
Or Asstr - they have an okay search function. (I realize this is a bit late.) I also think you should join a dating site just to try it out. You said guys never ask you out, right? Maybe you should just put yourself out there more? I know you don't need advice from random dudes on the internet, but this guy...you're getting something out of the relationship, it's not a total wash, but it doesn't sound like there's any potential to turn into something more.
Yea - you are right about this guy - nothing will happen, he was the reason I first posted on this forum nearly 4 yrs ago! He knows I'm on the dating websites, and no responses yet.... but don't worry - not giving up. I'm just one of those people you see a pic of and you think "yea - I know why you're single"....well that's what I've been told time and time again by many many people..... so screw them - the superficial idiots. lol Anyway - I'll try that suggestion.... thank you!!!
People tell you that?! Good lord, people are assholes. I see a lot of people and think "That person must be single; he/she is a completely irredeemable asshole," and then it turns out that they're married with three kids. So there's no accounting for taste either way - but you at least sound like a nice person who wants to be in love, so you've got something pretty big going for you there. Good luck, babe.
Are you overweight? Maybe trying to lose some weight would lead to more dates for you. If you're ok with what you look like that's fine too, just a suggestion. It's one of those things that takes a little bit of time and dedication though, which alot of people can't commit to. In the end I think you'd find it worth it though.
