need help-about crazy hormonal girls

Hey Guys! Your help needed!
i don't really know if i am in the right topic at all.. so.. move me pls to Relations.. i accidentally happened here
Would you mind to tell me, do you have problems with your GF/wives/partners when they have PMS or other hormonal issues? are you interested at all to know what is going on in their heads and why they act so not usual (it's for girls who are really nice but turn to bitches from time to time)
Why i ask, i had an idea to write a book about it to let you get know us, girls, better, to understand what we feel and save couples from conflicts in these days.
Do you think it would be interested at all and is worth working on it?
Thanks!

 

no

 

is cuz you're too old and don't care any more?

 

I've been your age and I've been my age and also have been all ages in between. It's not polite to talk down to Trolls!

The reason I said "no" is because I think the idea sucks and isn't worth working on!



Have fun, play safely, and don’t play with fire!

 

thanks for honest opinion.. btw, i joked about age, sorry if i offended you, i didn't mean to.. so you think idea completely sucks? is that because men don't care to understand and just try to go hide during these days?

 

Apology accepted. Your age reference didn't offend me, it just made me assume that you're kinda narrow minded.

I think that the book is a waste of time because every woman is different in how they react to their hormonal changes ... and the guys who could benefit from the information have already proven that they're not intelligent enough to benefit from it just as they haven't learned from the living examples in their own lives.

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girls are for gays

 

Coming from a mama who has been through pregnancy-induced hormone swings AND PMS-induced fits of insanity I could suggest a few things if you want to survive someone's outbursts. But let me just warn you - if a girl ever caught her guy reading an entire book on how to survive her outbursts... that relationship would be OVER!

First, learn to lie low. Mentioning to her that she might be under the influence of too much estrogen (even & ESPECIALLY if you're right) is a sure way to die young. Smile, nod, tell yourself that she's not sane at the moment & try to stay out of the line of fire.

Second, learn to be helpful. These outbursts tend to be accompanied by a fairly significant amount of discomfort and/or PAIN. Lifting heavy things (like a giant roasting pan, a full hamper of dirty laundry or a slippery 4-year old fresh from the tub) becomes increasingly more difficult. Rather than asking "can I help?" try something like "Oh here, I'll get that for you!" and stepping in. Asking if you can help tends to generate a frustrated sigh, and a "No, I'll just do it MYSELF!" and can cause her mood to sour even further.

And third... chocolate helps. Really & truly. The trick is to do this on-the-sly so she thinks you're being sweet, rather than making an offering to her in hopes of saving your skin. If she thinks you're only giving her chocolate because you're afraid of her mood swings, it'll backfire. It's gotta be dark chocolate though, because that's where all of those wonderful chemicals are that are supposed to help re-balance the chemical imbalance or some such like that.

My husband & I have been working our way through this TOGETHER for the past 17 years. It wasn't 'til the birth of my daughter that I REALLY developed the awful nasty mood-swings, and we have been trying to learn how to survive them ever since. He knows me pretty well, and has learned to "read the signs" and often I will wake up to find a single chocolate truffle laying on his pillow next to me. It's a quiet peace-offering, and his silent way of suggesting that perhaps I need to watch myself for the day... while he's on the road to work & far enough away not to be snapped at for "inferring that which shouldn't be mentioned."

Each woman is different. And over the course of her life, apparently she can CHANGE! I never used to be a hormonally-imbalanced wreck... and now I become a monster once a month. Learning to read her signs, learning to lie low AND to be a bit more helpful... and the occasional chocolate seems to be what helps ME - but I've talked to quite a few mamas who have agreed that these things would help them as well.

And be nice to trolls - I happen to be friends with one too!
love,
mom

 

All you wrote is so nice I just don't understand why if girl ever caught.. relations would be over.. i would only appreciate my BF/partner's desire to understand me better and make our relations better..
I am nice to trolls I just tried to make a joke. Apparently, it wasn't a successful try.. sorry, different culture-different humor...
i hope, you don't mind mice?

 

The first part of your post illustrates yet another reason that you should not be writing a book about human females.

The second part illustrates what others have told me .... I already apologized to you .... so it appears to this old Troll that you're either pretty dense or an amateur Troll.



Have fun, play safely, and don’t play with fire!

 

The thing with females, is that if we catch our men reading books about how to deal with us, we take it as a sign that you feel there's something wrong with us. Mood swings, while perfectly dreadful to behold & be caught within, ARE perfectly normal.

Looking things up on the internet & asking other men who have been there / done that is one thing... but an entire book infers that you somehow intend to change us... OR that you feel WE need help.

No, it's not fair that you have to put up with our ratty nasty attitudes & flying saucepans once a month. But we don't exactly feel it's fair that we have to wake up hating everything including ourselves once a month either & seeing a book like that lying on the coffee table would only remind us of how truly miserable we are.

So long as YOUR hormonal imbalances cause you to think about sex constantly... while OUR hormonal imbalances require dealing with blood & pain, I don't think any man will ever TRULY "get it" though some definitely come close in the empathy department. All the same, did that make things any more clear?
love,
mom

 

Yep mama you are right! Power to yah sistah

 

either i am really dumb, or something..
why not about human females? i am kinda one of them. or am i abnormal one?!
then.. i didn't actually address previous post to you, but to homeschoolmama.. so i don't understand why, referring to it, you say that i am either amateur Troll (maybe, i don't know much about trolls, so i can't say for sure) or pretty dense. what others have told you about what?... ah, never mind..

 

to homeschoolmama:
i don't know.. everything you write is exactly opposite to how i would feel about it.. to me, if guy reads such books, it means not that there is a problem with me, but that he admits that he needs help in understanding me better, just somehow can't ask me directly about it...

 

If you're genuinely seeking advice, contact me via email and we can negotiate my professional services fees.

If you're are a troll, I decline to play with you. I don't take advantage of the handicapped.



Have fun, play safely, and don’t play with fire!

 

OK, very funny... nice joke...
What kind of professional you are so i would want to ask your advise and pay you your professional fees? and.. are you a Troll-Cinderella... that you don't leave your address and want me to find you by some.. maybe your pics? (btw, you have very handsome boys!)
and should or shouldn't i be a Troll to be considered handicapped? (cuz your "you're are" make me think you made a mistake somewhere)

 

Right on mama. Couldn't say it better myself.

As long as guys understand that we have to bleed, out of our crotch for 5-7 days, every month, then our mood swings should be understandable. Seriously, how happy would you be if you had to bleed out of your dick and get no sex for a week every month?

 

wait... wait-wait-wait.. i just re-read all the replies.. i think there's a little mistake here..
moussy=woman!
mama tries to talk to me as i am a guy, and at all.. or that's my English that bad that i misunderstand something?

 

I also thought that you were a man, but after looking at your profile page I find that you're a very attractive woman. My apologies to you Ms. Moussy.

 

Apologies accepted so now i am not considered to be a handicapped troll?
so, you see, that's not a man who would want to write a book about women.. it's a woman who wants to explain men who we are and what we are.. maybe you're right and it is a bad idea.. well, i just wanted to know somebody's opinion except mine