I haven't thought about sex in a week!

Well, I have been having major relationship problems of late. (whats been happening: http://hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=37546) Since me and my gf broke up, I have been great, I have finally come to terms with what is going on between us and I have pretty much moved on. Anyway, I was talking to a friend yesterday about sex, and she is obviously into me. We have had a fling or two, but never went all the way. Anyway, she'd asked about my sex life with my ex (me and this friend are very open about stuff) and my only gripe about it was that she wasn't that great at oral. Well, my friend started going on about how to give good head, and all of a suddenI realized that conversation was honestly the first time I have thought about anything at all sexual since last Sunday, the last time me and my ex had sex. And then it occurred to me, I haven't had an erection since then either. So, I figured in the interest of science, I should masturbate to make sure everything is okay. Well, funny thing, I was disgusted by the porn I was looking at, and I was so bored with jacking off I couldn't even get it up. What is wrong with me??? I have never had this problem.

 

I'd say just not to worry about it. Eventually your mojo will come back. This is a time to better yourself without letting sex control your mind. (If you've seen the Seinfeld episode where George stops having sex and becomes smarter, then you get the idea.)

 

LOL, didn't think about that. I kind of hope my "mojo" stays gone for a while, women keep slowing me down in hindsight.

 

oh how freud of him

 

lol...

 

Well I recently broke up too (after a looooooong time) but I can't say that I have the same problem... unfortunately! You are blessed

 

wow, im sorry, unless u like it like that then yey! lol hope it comes back when u want it to! (it will, dont worry )

 

It's a phase I'm sure. I wouldn't worry about it. The more you worry, the more difficult it will be to think sexy thoughts! Besides, is it really a bad thing that you're not spending a lot of time thinking about sex?

Glad you're doing well.

Peace, love, and happiness...

 

Oh, thank god, it's back. I woke up this morning with a huge boner, and sufice it to say it still works correctly. Still bored with porn though...oh well. Now I gots to find a way back to my girl, or find a new one.

 

how long were you and your gf dating? I had the same thing happen after about breaking up with my gf of a year. over now though, thank god.

 

Well, we dated on and off for six months, but we got really serious, engaged serious. I am still a bit overwhelmed over it being over. I want to wait on her toi be ready for a relationship again, but I am not sure she deserves it for being so seflish and shit, I think I am gonna cut my losses and go.