Would You Ever Have Sex On The First Date?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by forest_pixie84, Oct 18, 2004.

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  1. forest_pixie84

    forest_pixie84 Senior Member

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    would you/ have you ever had sex on the first date?
     
    forest_pixie84, Oct 18, 2004
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  3. Darth_Babyus

    Darth_Babyus Member

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    Yes/yes
     
    Darth_Babyus, Oct 18, 2004
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  5. Super_Grrl

    Super_Grrl Crazy love

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    No I wouldn't... to me sex is about real love... and I think (at least for me) it would take more than one date for real love. JMO though.
     
    Super_Grrl, Oct 18, 2004
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  7. Darth_Babyus

    Darth_Babyus Member

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    How about being in love with a person for a long time and finally finding the courage to confess. Would you sleep with that person at that time?

    (that has never been my case though... just asking for academic purposes)
     
    Darth_Babyus, Oct 18, 2004
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  9. dylanzeppelin

    dylanzeppelin daydream believer

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    nope and nope..
     
    dylanzeppelin, Oct 18, 2004
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  11. kppdlevel1

    kppdlevel1 Member

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    yes and no
     
    kppdlevel1, Oct 18, 2004
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  13. Darth_Babyus

    Darth_Babyus Member

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    It would be very interesting to hear someone say no and yes :D
     
    Darth_Babyus, Oct 18, 2004
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  15. HippyFreek2004

    HippyFreek2004 changed screen name

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    I've never dated...never had a boyfriend...and I've been with 5 guys....So I guess yes...

    Holly
     
    HippyFreek2004, Oct 18, 2004
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  17. madbeast

    madbeast Member

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    no and yes
    yey! im interesting now!!! lol
    in reality my answer isnt no and yes, though i must say if i loved them and finally confessed i may...but truely id wait...or at least i was on the pill AND had a condom lol as of now, not being on the pill, im gonna wait a long time, espeically when i think im fairly young yet, u no? theres enough time to fool around later (like in college lol)
    though even then...idk, it would b too weird for me to have sex with someone i wasnt in love with...
     
    madbeast, Oct 18, 2004
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  19. dangermoose

    dangermoose Is a daddy

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    does oral sex count? if so yes and yes.
     
    dangermoose, Oct 18, 2004
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  21. SelfControl

    SelfControl Boned.

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    Would do, have done, but probably prefer not to now. Generally I only do it if I'm attracted to someone but don't think we'd work out as boyfriends. If you don't, it's just a waste really.
     
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  23. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    No way, I made my hubby wait a year before we had sex back when we were dating. The poor guy! ;)

    Peace, love, and happiness...
     
    hippychickmommy, Oct 18, 2004
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  25. april922

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    when i first started dating my b/f we knew each other for 2 weeks, so it was soon...but never the first date.
     
    april922, Oct 18, 2004
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  27. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    no I do think I could unless it was like somone who I knew when I was younger or someone I knew.
     
    lynsey, Oct 18, 2004
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  29. smilez

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    I can relate. I almost find it harder to sleep with someone that I truly care about for the first time. I know that sounds really stupid. Just hooking up with someone eliminates that getting hurt (feelings) factor.
     
    smilez, Oct 19, 2004
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  31. kppdlevel1

    kppdlevel1 Member

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    True that.

    Razor Ramone
     
    kppdlevel1, Oct 19, 2004
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  33. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    Negatory/Nope
     
    mystical_shroom, Oct 19, 2004
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  35. Super_Grrl

    Super_Grrl Crazy love

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    Good question... I'm not sure how to answer though. I probably still wouldn't.
     
    Super_Grrl, Oct 19, 2004
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  37. matthew

    matthew Almost sexy

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    Would do, have done, but probably prefer not to now. (sorry to steal selfcontrol but you said it best).
     
    matthew, Oct 19, 2004
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  39. Therefore...

    Therefore... Antidentite

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    Not on the first date. But a one night stand isn't considered a date.
     
    Therefore..., Oct 19, 2004
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