Oh my, I am SO sorry moussy! Somehow I got the impression that you were a man! I don't tend to see many other women that call ourselves "crazy" and genuinely want to help our poor uneducated men out. And no, I don't mind mice... so long as they're not in my pantry. My real-life nickname IS mouse! love, mom
It's so funny it's ok, i just didn't get it at once that you tried to explain it to me like if i didn't know myself how i feel in those days but then i realized that there's some misunderstanding. so, now it's clear yes, i do want to help our poor uneducated men cuz i see it so often that they don't speak to their women and don't discuss what bothers them.. and as communication is a key to understanding, they don't understand each other and they have conflicts that they could avoid.. you see, i also once sat down with my husband and i explained him what i feel, how i feel and why i can't control my emotions. as you described, you also kinda showed your husband how he must be, and he's one of the smartest guys, he took this information and behaves perfectly. I also don't have problems with my hubby any more.. but unfortunately not all the girls are like us who can clearly explain to their men how they feel and what they want, and not every man will start talking about it.. and as far as i've noticed, talking to many-many women, they all are different, but still they're all alike, you can simply find something common in all their behavior.. that's what i wanted to explain to men.. now.. do you think it's worth working on?
Unfortunately I still don't think it would work. See, the men that NEED to read something like this wouldn't. And the men that already "get it" don't actually need a book. Helpful books rarely actually make their way into the hands of those who they were intended for. love, mom
It's all about how you express yourself. If you give your book a title such as, Understanding Ladies, or Being Understanding to Ladies, or something like that, it might be ok for her to find you're reading such a book. It's all about being understanding. Many girls complain about their partners not being understanding towards them at times like these. Just being kind is enough... Not treating them like troubled weirdos is the thing to do.