Phimosis - It's a Foreskin Thing

Alrighty then. This is going to be such a good first post

My boyfriend has Phimosis. In lamens terms, it means the foreskin doesn't retract over the head of the penis. He can retract it when flaccid but not when erect, as it's too tight. He's 23, and has always been this way. Because it is not painful he sees no reason to get circumcised, and we enjoy sex like any other couple. He can still masturbate, and I can still get him off, just have to be careful not to pull too hard in certain places. I certainly have no complaints, I love his cock.


I don't know what the policy of posting images or links on this website actually is, but this is NOT SUITABLE FOR WORK:
http://www.the-penis.com/zimages/phimosis11_1.jpg

Not actually him, but looks kinda similar (thanks Google).

Annnnnnnnnyway, because of this, most of the head of his penis is covered by foreskin during erection. So yeah, there are a number of things I do slightly differently - not having an exposed cock-head, some things that feel great for other guys just aren't really that interesting to him. I was wondering if anyone else had this/knew anyone that had it, and if there were any specific things they enjoyed, or any way that this could be used to my advantage?

I've talked to him about it, and we can have frank and open discussions about sex but I thought it would be nice if I could add a couple of things to my repertoire to surprise him. If this made any sense, comments please

 

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I got that too and have been trying to take it care of but my doctor recommend circumcision. I refused. I still don't want to stay this way but I can't really say how's sex, I'm still a virgin. By the way, wanted to ask you, you guys still have good sex even with that? What about blowjobs?

 

Blowjobs...he enjoys them but is a little less crazy about them than some guys. Without the exposure of the head, or much of it anyway it's different sensations, and so he enjoys actually a bit of suction, especially around the end, creates a good feeling for him. And generally a bit of tongue work goes down well

Like I say, when you don't have the same set of nerve endings to work with, you do things slightly differently. It's a little difficult to describe specifics, you kind of have to work with it as you get it.

 

Exactly like I thought. Oh well, at least you guys get good sex!

 

Click here to see one guy’s experience with phimosis.

It took me several months of stretching my foreskin to be able to fully uncover the glans. YMMV

 

Let me try to beat Cutted and his 'candy wrapper' advice to be of some help! As bro O Troll states, it is possible to stretch the 4skin so that it will flow naturally over the penis head. Skin stretches and adjusts, as any woman will attest after a pregnancy. [The same principle applies to those circumcised males who wish for a restorative 4 skin.] Takes a bit of time but, simply put, lotion under and over the skin followed by fingers pulling apart the 'opening,' will, after time, leave the skin as flexed and stretched as necessary to move back without difficulty when pulled (either by hand or during the process of erection.). Some suggest greater speed and less resistance of the skin if done after a good soak in a bath. You might join him taking the waters and pulling apart the skin; fun together is the best kind. I can humbly attest to that in my case. The 'game of stretch' results provide both protection and ease of movement during intercourse, oral sex, and masturbation. It makes all three easier - though at first the sensitivity is galawful, so as his SO please be careful when the time comes. Circumcision is NOT the only answer, as it will lead to a dulling of the nerve endings that are left. Help him and enjoy the whole process together! May the cockgods watch over you.

 

Do you happen to have their phone number? I'm in serious need of their help!

 

I would encourage you to have your BF see a doctor. A good one. I believe he has a few options. I'm not an expert on the subject but I think stretching is an option, also getting a "slit", or circumcision. As an intact male I have never had any problems with my foreskin. In fact it has only given me and my lovers pleasure. At least that's what she(s) told me. It just seems unfortunate for you and your BF to continue like this. I think there is a whole world of (more) pleasure out there waiting for you. Explore your options. I think amputation, I mean circumcision, is the last and most drastic to consider. But if I was in his situation and circumcision was the only option vs. what he has now. I would take that option. And this is coming from a person who is against the procedure, certainly on infants. But there are situations were it is warranted. Maybe this is one. IMO.

 

Dear OT; I thought you knew. The gods don't communicate by instrument. They cum to you! Wait and watch.........

 

I am uncut with a very long foreskin and have nad NO problems in my life. However some guys can have an strangulation of the penis head amd that can create an emergency condition and force the circumcision procedure. I recommend visiting a "cosmetic surgeon" to see if they can save the foreskin. There is a procedure using lateral slits to relieve pressure ..but its a case by case issue since we all are different. So go to Cosmetic Surgeon first. The typical urologist will only think "Circumcision". Your situation may be so tight that you mau have to bite the bullet and lose the skin.

 

phimosis can be cured by stretching techniques and/or steroid cream, it's a minor minor problem.

if foreskin restorers can get back inches of skin and tissue then an intact person could stretch a few centimeters to relieve phimosis

 

Create an emergency condition? Please explain.

 

OldTroll ...some guys have such a small opening that when fully erect they pull the foreskin back and strangle the head ...poor blood circulation gives them a huge pain and they have to run to hospital to relieve the condition ... and emergency surgery is used many times. Its similar effect if you tie a string very tight around your finger. Try it and you will see what happens. Consult a physician about the consequences.

 

bye the way I am uncut ..and have had no problems in my life with it.

 

It's this Troll's opinion that the above is so infrequent as to be almost nonexistent.

Try a stretchy string for your analogy. Human skin is extremely stretchable. As any woman who has delivered a baby.

 

I had pinhole phimosis and decided to goto the doctor about it a few months back as I got fed up of my foreskin ripping during sex aswell as the fact I could hardly feel anything through the foreskin as only a few millimetres of head was exposed.
He said that stretching was out of the question and circumcision was the only option so I went ahead with it.

I got circumcised 2 and a half weeks back now and I am SO HAPPY I have got it done, it's the first time I've ever seen the head of my penis and it looks so much better than before, the only thing holding my girlfriend back at the moment is the stitches!

It's not been painfull at all sofar, but it has been majorly sensitive especially since i took the bandages off, even rubbing against my boxers/briefs is uncomfortable, but it's something I will get used to and it's a little sacrifice I'm more than happy to make!

The other downside to the operation is that there is no sex for 5-6 weeks, I haven't slept for 3 nights due to raging hard ons which is frustrating as hell! however I actually came for the first time since the operation today and it was jaw dropping, although I think if any 19 year old testosterone filled male held off for 2 weeks it would feel just as good! hopefully i can sleep tonight!!

I would definetly reccomend a circumcision after my experience...sofar!

 

Diablos - - thanks for the informative post. Please do an update when you're fully healed and have resumed a normal intercourse frequency.

We all learn from people like you. :cheers2:

 

Actually it's not as uncommon as you may think. Thats why my dad was cut.

 

that depends, in america it's way way overdiagnosed as most doctors themselves are cut, doctors in the u.s. will diagnose infants with phimosis, but biologically it's normal to not be able to retract till puberty