sooooooo ive had sex with my girlfriend 3 times now(first 3 times ever btw) and each time i havent been able to finish. it goes limp or i just give up after to long. ive had the same problem with oral and hand jobs. it takes me a long time to finish and usually only finish once in a while after taking a long time to do it. im feeling turned on enough but something doesnt seem to work. if it could be related i smoke weed all the time. anybody know whats happening?
My ex boyfriend and I had a simliar problem. Although I wasn't his first, the first 3 times we had sex he'd go limp about 5 minutes into it. It actually took him being drunk to be able to finish with me the first time. I think he was just so nervous about it that when he drank, his inhibitions went away. That may be what's happening to you, especially if its your first time. You might be so nervous about everything else going on around you and performing well that you're just not really enjoying it.
