I'm interested in starting some anal play with my gf, and as far as rimming goes, I'm not really sure where to start. Actually, I've fingered her anus before, and we've even had anal sex a couple of times, before she decided it was too much for her. So now every once in a while, she'll grab some anal lube and have me finger her anus with 1 or 2 fingers because she knows that I'm into it. A few times while giving her oral, I've slid my tongue all the way down and then around her anus, and then just lightly put the tip in. She said she liked whatever it was I did. So naturally the next time, I tried a little more and was really not into it. (Don't get me wrong I wasn't exactly fucking her ass with my tongue) She said that it was only good for a little bit. Clearly she's not as comfortable with anal play as much as some of the veteran posters in this forum. So I want to know how to start getting her to open up to the idea of some anal play and rimming without sounding like it's all I want. And also, what are some tips you guys might have about rimming for someone who's new to it?
remember never to lick her hole and then go back to her pussy, it can get it all sorts of infected. I say just work slowly, just rubbing the rim with your fingers is a good start and when she is really in the heat of the moment switch ur tongue with your finger. Have fun and be safe!
It's about making a setting that she feels happy enough in to explore. Let her have a warm bath or shower first (this serves two purposes, getting her clean and relaxing her) light candles, do the flower thing, use a blindfold. Whatever you need to but get her totally relaxed. Then do what you want too, gently at first (stop if she asks you) and be very encouraging the entire way threw. Moan as you rim her, and once your done make her feel like the most special person in the world, without drawing attention to that one act or she'll know that you set it up. Good Luck!
