why do guys wanna give girls anal?

I dunno some people have like butt disorders where they are always constipated and don't know the difference... maybe she's not prairie dogging but maybe it's a big massive hard clump up there...

 

Well I have personally never heard of the "butt disorder" that you describe, although it may exist in some rare case. Most people generally know when they have to go poo. Hopefully if someone did posses this fore mentioned "butt disorder" he/she would have the courtesy to warn their partner before attempting "buttsecks FTW". Of course there is always some chance of mess when going there, but thats a risk most guys are willing to take.

 

In my particular case: I'm married, and my wife tried anal once (and hated it). I kinda want to because I don't want there to be something my wife has done with someone else, but not with me.

I realize that's a totally lame reason. And so does she, unfortunately.

 

Well if she doesn't like it then there is not much you can do about it. Even though she did it with someone else it was a bad experience for her so why would you want to put her through it again?

 

For the people with said butt disorders

 

Because I'm a dude?

 

More like a douche bag...
Pushing someone into an experience they do not enjoy is a good way to burn bridges forever!
Or cause some serious damage to someone's psyche good job typical asshole.

 

some guys are thinking of sex too much....seeking something new and more exciting
something tight to have more pleasure
to dominate more, sometimes to humiliate
or to try what many think is cool

if someone insists on that forcing a girl - he's just not worth dating or even talking about...
i would recomment such guys stick somebody's penis in their asses to try it first and learn the sensations from their own experience...

if both partners agree on anal i think it's ok
every man to his taste

i just hate when some guy forces a girl
which is often met on these forums

 

I think a lot of it is down to porn. Anal sex has become such a dominant trend in porn these days it's carrying over into guys mainstream sex lives. Women don't have a prostate which is what makes anal sex so pleasurable for gay men that get bummed by other guys. It's true a large proportion of women have done it (including myself) but I think in the vast majority of cases its cause the man requests it.

There's nothing wrong with a man making a request like that, unless it involves putting unwanted pressure on his partner. Anywho on the few occassions I've done it just felt strange rather than sexual.

 

Ahem: for the record, I never said I was pressuring her. I'm not. I told her I totally wanted to try it and why, she said she was totally not into it, and it never came up again. That was three years ago.

Sheesh.

 

Every girl I have done it with loves it. It's all in how you do it. If you have a massive cock it will only hurt the girl. It's all in the prep and how you do it. You can't just ram it in.

 

I've read posts from some women who say they really love anal sex because the orgasms from it are more intense than the orgasms from vaginal sex. That is because the anus has many more nerve endings in it than the vagina does, so when those nerve endings are stimulated, they cause an intense pleasure. The women say the orgasms are even better if they or their partner is rubbing their clitoris at the same time they are pumping inside their anus. Plus, I've read that deep anal penetration can hit a woman's G-spot, which also creates an intense orgasm.

 

here's a story I found online...


When I was 17 my girlfriend at the time was finally ready to have sex. I, as one might expect of a 17 year old, was excited. Neither hell nor high water was going to stand between me and my final destination.

I get ready for the night, trim everything up, shower extra well. Unfortunately there was also an issue. I have a digestional disorder that sometimes cause my shit to become large and quite solid while still inside me. I wasn't aware it was a treatable problem and, in fact, just thought everyone had to deal with the equivalent of anal kidney stones. I bring this up because I had a mighty one which had been loaded into the gun for several days.

Let me set the scene. Her parents are away. We have her house to ourselves. She was always a little kinky so she demands we do it in her parents bed.

I walk in to a candle holocaust. She's been working on this all day apparently, and its as bright as high noon in there with the lights off. Which is good, because she proceeds to do a sweet, sexy little dance for me. At 16, she was AMAZING. For those of you who never experienced a female at that age, I pity the fool.

Now I'm sitting on the bed, watching this dance. I smile and tell her how good she looks. Unfortunately, most of my attention is focused on the dull throbbing from my sphincter and the large amount of intestinal discomfort associated with not dropping duce in days. But somehow I still get hard and we go to town.

She starts out on top, then we switch. I bend her over the bed, and I even smack her ass (a ballsy move at the time, but she loved it). Due to my built up distraction, I last for what seems like FOREVER. She can't stop moaning and telling me how good it feels, and then she says what every man wants to hear "I want to make you go in my mouth." I **** love women.

So she goes down on me. She was always average at best in the head department but at least she tried. She pops my **** out of her mouth long enough to look up at me and say "tell me if you like this". Then I feel it.

She stuck her finger up my ass.

My brain hits the panic switch and every muscle in my entire body locks up tighter than a three year old virgin. But its too late.

I take a massive, PAINFUL, PAINFUL shit, all over her parents comforter.

No, you aren't understanding. I mean large. Huge. IMMENSE. Take your largest shit and multiple it by forty-two and you'll have an idea of what flew out of me.

And gents, when I say flew, I don't mean "I pooped." I mean "projectile". I mean "hurricane force winds hitting an umbrella stand". And due to my condition, it comes out as a large, dark brown, smelly harpoon.

I know it hit her. I didn't see it. She ran screaming "OH MY GOD OHMYGODOHMYGODEEEEEWWWWWWWW" but I always imagined that, due to her position, it hit her right in the chin. Or at least the tits.

I would like to say I got up to go after her. But I heard the bathroom door shut and I just lied there. The smell hit me after a few seconds. It smelled like someone rolled a cat in shit and threw it into a tire fire. I looked down and saw, to date, the largest bowel movement I've ever heard of laying on the bed. Then I noticed the blood, and when I did, I noticed the pain.

Apparently the fact that it was so large caused it to rip my ass a little bit (thought I was bleeding from the inside. This little doctors trip the next day is what taught me of my condition). There was a small pool of blood where my ass had been. A final reminder of the exact place and moment I lost my virginity. I will treasure this memory for all my days.

I grab my shit with my hands and go to the downstairs bathroom. I throw around 1/3 into the toilet and flush, fearing any more will clog it and only add to my already significant woes.

I stand there, holding 2/3's of my biggest shit of all time, feeling a trickle of blood flow down my leg, trying to ignore the sharp pain stabbing my rectum. I find myself wishing I had a photo of this.

Anyway, I finish flushing my baby, clean off my hands, jam toilet paper between my cheeks (I skipped the bandaid) and went upstairs. I could hear my girlfriend sobbing from behind the bathroom door. I decided not to say anything to her and just keep moving. The smell in her parents room was abysmal. Its like when you take a shit and walk out of the bathroom you think "hey not so bad today," but then you walk back in to grab your magazine and go "HOLY SHIT!". It was one of those moments.

The scene is burned behind my eyelids for all time. My life. My shame. My very first time smelled like a pile of dead babies. I quickly got dressed since the heat from ten thousand candles was making the room feel more like a port-a-potty. I was aware enough to grab the comforter on my way out and drag it downstairs to their washer. Also the top and bottom sheets since the blood had leaked on through all the way to mattress. Still no sign of the GF but at this point I considered it a blessing.

I jammed in the washer with 3 loads worth of detergent and set it on spin, knowing that not even the hand of God would save these linens, let alone Tide and Snuggles.

Then I left. I avoided my GF's calls for days until she came to my house. We had a long talk about what happened. Talk being synonymous with "breaking up with me because I shit on her". And it was all over. She promised not to tell a soul and I don't THINK she ever did. She was probably as ashamed as I was about the whole deed. But I will always this happening as the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to me.)

 

^^^ I've heard that story a million and a half times from girls that are worried about anal. To be honest, that's why you empty the poop shoot before entry...

 

Just to be clear, here: so you're saying you have a tiny cock?

 

That was the most well written, most horrible piece I have ever read. If it is true, Alanis should have put that in her song... "It's like having loss-of-virginity sex with the hottest, sexiest girl ever and before you can cum, you projectile launch a dumptruck load of shit onto her and her parents bed and soak the mattress with the blood from your torn anus.... isn't it ironic... dont ya think?"

... and Ladybrunette, bonus points for this one.

I laughed out loud.

 

Yeah it's a story alright, and one that I think is completely bogus. It's not relevant anyway even if it is true because this kid knew he had to go and would have stopped his girlfriend from doing that had she not decided to "surprise" him. You never surprise someone by sticking something in their ass. It's just not right.

 

For me, I just wanted to try something new and see how it felt for her pleasure and mine. It was terrible, I had to go extremely slow plus it hurt her and me. For me to try it again I would have to have a girl ask me for it, I have no more desire to trying again tho.


My $.02

 

You know I thought about my comment after I posted it and that it would be thought like that. No what I meant was you cant plow a 12 in cock in her and expect it all to be ok unless shes a porn star. Bigger cocks take more work and more regular usage. It doesn't stay loose for an extended period of time. So someone with a large cock would likely be better off staying away, unless she is into it. Everyone is different. Good job at catching that....

 

Did you use lube and all? Angle and lube can work wonders.