A thought about girls losing virginity and dildos.

Two generations ago -- in the 50's and 60's -- is seems like the vast majority of women's first sexual experiences were painful, which led to a lot of anxiety. I mean, having a man -- and men weren't nearly as educated about these things as they are today -- bust your hymen apart with his dick, even if done with tenderness and plenty of foreplay, couldn't be much fun.

So my question is this: In the last decade or so, dildos have become quite commonplace and female masturbation is much more acceptable. It seems nearly every girl has some sort of bedroom device. Having complete control of their first "boyfriend," the experience would probably be easier and less unpleasant. In other words, by the time they get down and dirty with a real man, the hymen is out of the way, healed, and first penetration would be easier. It would give her a "test run" too. If I were a young girl, that's the way I'd do it.

Am I right about this? How many women had first penetratlon with an artificial penis? That makes things easier, correct?

 

Not really, most womens hymens are broken from sports like bike riding or horse riding or evn wrenching your body in a weird way. Alot of women now aren't even born with hymens anymore. I don't think that women use dildo's to make it so the first time doesn't hurt for them, they do it for fun.

 

I don't use dildos and I am a virgin. I also don't have my hymen.

 

i dont use anything; i'm not worried about it though either but then again pain isnt something that really bothers me

 

lol it was my 2nd time having sex that my hymen bursted it was my fourth time that the sex didn't hurt after 5 min

 

I didn't have my hymen either. And I've yet to use a dildo. I want one really bad.

 

i remember using small cosmetic bottles as a young teen because it felt so good to have something in my pussy when i masturbated. One time there was a bottle that got gradually larger and i think that broke my hymen. sex never hurt i still love using random objects to stretch my **** too...

 

So get one! They don't cost that much or have your bf get you one. It can add to the excitement.

 

Wow, four times. Must of been a big guy.