First a little background I grew up in the same street with this girl. I hung out with her bro and become good friends with him and shortly after i fell for his sister T big time. i started hanging out with her alot in my childhood but then things changed. As i got older her bro stopped letting her hang out with him and it was then awkward for me to hang out with her, i should have done something about it but i didnt. I was sure this girl was the one and that i loved her! About 2 years after i started comp i fell for this other girl A who was v charming, v good looking, seemed flawless! Sher really complicated things. I knew A liked me because she would always look at me and i finally found the nerve to talk to her. We became gd friends and i hung out alot with her. After hanging out with her alot i began to see flaws and it made me realize how much i loved t. After a long time of wondering who was the 1 for me (i was convinced it was t but this girl A would always put doubts in my mind) i had finally realized that t was the 1 for me in my mind and i was gonna do everything to make her mine! We are meant to be i just know it. Now i have realized who i want about a week later i have a dream. Dream I am in a supermarket and i see A and in the dream i end up kissing her and in the background a song starts playing. It is Brian McKnights Your like a dream come true. I checked the lyrics http://www.lyrics007.com/Brian McKnig ... yrics.html. It seems pretty clear what the message is here. It seems like i am being told that A is in fact the 1 for me and i got it all wrong. I went in denial for a few days, trying to make excuses but last night i had another dream. Dream 2 I am in my house with a few friends and family and A is here. She goes out the garden to lie down or something so i make up a reason to follow her. I sit a bit behind her not to make too obvious. A bit later she walks in house and on way back out she says to me why you reading a girls mag for the pics is it? I say i want to find out what girls like (laughing)... and for the pics of course. Then she walks over to me, leans over and slowly kisses me on the cheek and smiles. She then says you will have to compare who kisses the best me or T then walks off. Then i wake with Brian McKnights your like a dream come true playing in my head again! Now i am not in denial anymore i am now thinking that i may have got it all wrong, what i thought i knew for so long was not true, i actually want A and she is the 1 i am meant to be with. So confused!!! This is very hard to digest if it turns out to be true. i was so sure! I hope this dream means something else but i dont see how it can, the words in the song say it all. Need expert help badly. Plz respond.
Hi Matty323, well I think there's no expert to help - but you are the 1 and only to know what this means. Other than that, I think (and it's just a thought) that it's not really about the girls but about you in need to be obvious inside yourself, and knowing what you want. The dreams are plain enough - no question here. Just look beyond the soap bubbles. And other than that again, well I don't really believe that there has to be a 1 number 1 in life - if this is not you - and I mean this not in a selfish way but in a way that you don't run and hide from your own lessons. Change your own self first. Heal yourself. Start within. Don't blame the others. They are but mirrors of your own thoughts, emotions, contradictions, and all the good wishes that may or may not come true. Be true to yourself is what matters. What do you really want ? Who do you want to be ? and be that way ... and then you may walk with A or T without being torn by the thought that the grass is greener on the other side. Shheit - didn't want to preach - but it almost looks like
Just as a general point: when Brian McKnight is in your dreams giving you advice, you have bigger problems than we can solve.
