Men have you ever performed sexually even though you didn't want to?

I will sometimes have sex even when I don't really feel like it, its not something that really bothers. In the past I've been absolutly gagging for a shag and expected my SO to do the business. On one occassion I was pretty stinking, I hadn't showered in 2 weeks, and the location wasn't the greatest (I was in the middle of nowhere). All in all the situation was a big turn off for him especially after a 4 hour drive. It was a bit of a struggle for him but he performed like a star.

For women it's slightly easier if we're going to do a bloke a favour it just of going through the motions, but men need to get themselves aroused.

So any thoughts?

 

hadn't showered in 2 weeks? you couldn't pay me enough to go down on someone in that situationuke:

 

I should probably elaborate, reading back on my post it just seems like I have really poor hygine. I was in the army at the time and on exercise in scotland, I'd had a really shit time for various reasons so when we got an 8 hour stand down I let future hubbie know that I expected him to be waiting at the camp gates.

Incidently there are ways to keep yourself clean using the minimum amount of water, so I wasn't completley minging.

 

Years ago I worked at a hotel and I had been seeing another employee for a few weeks. We had gone out a few times and she had given me oral once or twice while her parents slept upstairs and I had played with her a bit. I remember that she was very easy to orgasm.
Anyway the first time we actually fucked I had just gotten off work from a day shift because I was filling in for someone and I had to report in to 3rd shift later to do my audit. Her parents were out of town and I wasn't sure if she was going to want to have sex because she was a nice girl and a bit of prude.

I can remember watching the Howard Stern E show and laying in her bed feeling exhausted and not at all looking forward to going back to work. We made small talk for about 15 minutes and she came out and asked me to fuck(though I can't remember how she put it) I tried nicely to explain how tomorrow would be better because I was beat( I really did not want sex at all that night) and I even stated that I didn't have any condoms thinking that she would let me off the hook but she really wasn't playing around. She advised me to wait and she would run to the store and get some and I could tell that she had worked herself up all day. I really wanted to sleep a few hours before going back to work but she begged a little so I gave in. Coincidentally it was worth it, as I said she orgasms easily and she was very vocal, (which I like) and she had nice figure. We ended up having very memorable sex and I felt like superman (mainly because she was a screamer, like the neighbors might call the cops loud, no for real).

As far as erection issues when I'm not in the mood I consider myself lucky, with little stimulation I am ready, and I do have occasional moments when I don't want to perform for my girl but I have no doubts that she does the same for me.

 

It's strange really but women don't seem to think much that men wouldn't want sex, it's a sterotype we should really try to break.

 

I'd personally rather beat off most of the time.

 

Whys that?

 

Well I never thought I would say it but yes I have had times were she wanted it and I was too tired or didn't feel up to it after 3+ hours of sex.

I remember I said to her I've got a headache and she said - "Here's a painkiller!".

We laughed about it later.

 

For some reason my gf gets crazy horny really early in the morning when she wakes up (she has to wake up earlier than me for her job). I'm a deep sleeper, and not a morning person at all. Honestly I would rather just keep sleeping but she usually rapes me before she goes. Oh well.

 

Sure, that's totally happened to me. I always (seriously, I think always, except for the exception below) go along with it anyway - and of course because I'm a guy, I almost always end up thinking "Holy shit, why was I not in the mood for this?" We're lucky 'cause even if we weren't really in the mood, we're probably gonna get an orgasm out of it - whereas sometimes if a girl's not really feeling it id can be REALLY hard to cum.

The one exception: for some reason she gets really horny when I'm sick. It's some kind of weird mothering thing or something. And the last thing I want is sex when I'm all snotty and disgusting and achy all over. I turn her away sometimes if I'm sick.

 

Yeah, the last time I did it...I was tired, and it was with my ex. I was aroused, and had been looking forward to having sex with her,(it'd been almost a year) but when we actually got in bed it just wasn't as passionate as it used to be...something was missing. I went for awhile but it kind of felt like something I had to do, and I ended up not coming and just getting too tired to carry on after awhile.

 

you're not kidding. whenever I'm tired or just not in the mood I get to hear that whole deal about "you don't find me attractive anymore, who else are you seeing, whats wrong with you?" that whole deal.

 

All the time, the girl I have now is so horny that she wouldn't let me sleep unless I banged her.

 

I've been raped before, but no one believed me or cared because I'm a guy.