Wrong to cheat??? Says who?

you covered what I was going to say..kind of. lol

except I believe to let your conscience be your guide. A wonderful gift from God. Although your conscience is most likely deadened from your promiscuity. Do you steal to? Cause most liars that I have known are thiefs also. Seems to go hand in hand.

 

If you have an open relationship, that's fine. Lying to her is not good.

 

Well thank you all for pitching in your thoughts on this matter.
To clarify a few things. I never wanted any attention ever at any point in my life. I was always my own man and never cared about what others think, it was just never my thing. It is true that I am in the clouds somewhat at this point in life, but as far as I can remember it has been like this more or less most of my life.
I am not a sociopath. I love animals, love music, love lakes forests and everything thats alive and pure. I just dont have any regard for humans and women in particular. I will go out of my way and help a stranger who is fallen and needs help, but only if he is truly fallen and needs real help. Like an elderly woman or man on the side of the road with a broken vehicle. Kid crying cause he fell of the bike, a dog lost in the woods looing for home etc.

I am a long time reader on this forum and hardly ever post. I wanted to ask this question here because I felt that people here might be more dynamic and be able to explain sexual behaviors during the passage of life.

Some of you have been interesting to hear from, and most of you were very polite.

I appreciate your kind words, truly do.

 

I'm taking a guess here that you had your heart shattered really badly awhile back or you have mother issues.

 

Why does it have to come back to an Oedipal conflict? I don't think psychology has anything to do with this topic.

Is it wrong to cheat? seems more like a moral...philosophical issue unrelated to whether the desire to have multiple partners is a direct result of someone desiring to have sex with their mother.

 

I hope this guy is trolling because he makes me sick

 

I say it's a past woman issue because of his downright refusal to love, not because he cheats.

 

I pity you.

 

I'm sorry... but if the OP is a sociopath... then every moral questioning thinker is also.

Atheists who believe in morality are even dumber than religious people.
If we assume God IS real.. then ofcourse it is logical to accept his morality.
If we deny god (atheism) then it is completely irrational to conclude on any kind of morality because there is nothing to obtain it from.

The OP is simply at the beginning (and it sounds like he has been for a while) of a life without objective morality and reason.

There are other ways and reasons to live.. we created "good" and "bad" and so we can choose other reasons to live.

The OP seems a little confused.. as he denies emotion as logical (which is correct) but then claims he loves to cheat/fuck.
Without emotion.. there is no reason to live... you are just a robot... a machine.

We do things because we have a motive.. even though emotion is not logical the OP's motive is emotion.... it's just that the emotion is not conventional.

Existentially pwned.

 

A bit ironic that you "pity" him but have that quote in your signature.

 

cheating on who your with is so wrong like i am so against it...that's so stupid...if you care about someone enough you wont cheat on that person and lemme tell you if your cheating on this girl that you are with now than you def don't even care about her weather or not she knows that you are not about the word "love"

 

fucking idiot you sound like vicky pollard.

 

You know...most of you all sound like a bunch of Hippies. Fact that Evil and power prevails almost every time has been a fact of life ever since humans walked this planet. Government, Church, any sort of mass power organization.
SO to paint me wrong and evil is plane wrong I think. I just like any other human, do what works for me the most! We all make our lives better at someone's expense.

Not like I care for hippies, but you all sound a bit religious and confused at the same time, reaching for whats wrong and whats not. Well one must be confused to take upon religion in the first place which doesn't speak volumes abut your identity as an individual. Easiest thing to do is to oblige to some assfuck religion and take upon someone elses logic and rules.

 

traxadron1 - - Are there any of society's widely accepted standards that you don't ridicule?

 

I'm sorry jackass but i'm a moral athiest and just because someone doesn't believe in god doesn't mean they aren't a good person and are just going to go off taking advantage of people like all the other scumbags out there.

haha.. i'm dumber then religious people because I choose not to add to all of societies problems as much as possible.. ok buddy.

 

Oh yes, traxadon you can shutup now we get it ,you're a heartless asshole we got it from the OP.

 

i am not saying that its not normal for people to cheat on others cuz its normal its what humans do i just said it was wrong. and if you want to be that stupid as to do so than more power to you. everyone has there own choices...its life it happens

 

Where do you get your morality from then? What YOU feel is right and wrong?

If so then that doesn't mean jackshit to any one else because you are not them.

Religion gives people an objective point from which to get their morality from... without that objective point any "good" and "bad" becomes irelevent.

So what do you consider good? Don't kill people? Why? Because society says so? Because man made a law saying its wrong? Because it upsets people? Because it takes away a life? None of those are reasons to not kill somone because it is "wrong".

I don't kill people and i generally abide by the law... but not because i believe in some dumbass "wrong" and "right".

Laws are made for the common good NOT because they are "wrong" or "right".

Ever noticed how your society that is so dead set against murder is happy to go to other countries and blow people apart because its for the "common good"?

Religious people only believe in good and bad because God declared what good and bad is.... if god said it was right to murder someone now and again they would...

seriously man just get a book on philosophical ethics or something.

 

You must be doing some really good drugs!