Question for the Ladies

sry i re-edited it

 

lol! can you post it again?

 

you think those guys that you like, that have" confidence" care about what YOU think of there own look?? i mean im sure they try to look good but i doubt they put as much thought into in compared as to women........i mean heres sum guy asking about this looks, does that make him look like someone with confidence(not try to say his not)???..but i dont think you need validation when your confident.

 

I think I can attempt this now. :S No, I don't think they care about what I think, but that is my point. Why does he care what we think? He's is not a boy I would date. The kind of guys I look for do not need that validation from me. Personally, I feel that confidence can do a lot. You can go from a 5 to a 7 just by being confident in yourself.
You know better than any of us what you have to offer. Take pride in that, quit worrying about what a bunch of girls on a meesage board think, and go out in the real world and strut. You are the best you that you can be. If that's not good enough for anyone else, eff them. They weren't worthy of your love anyway. If you came to me with that kind of attitude, I would be all over you in a heatbeat. BUT (and this is a big BUT) there is a fine line between confident and cocky. Just be careful not to go too far.

 

hm.... ok well based souly on appearance i'd say 6ish. which ain't bad i only ever seen one 10 in my life and i can't get him outta my head. but i mostly am attracted to personality

 

i was talking about men in general but i like your response