Ok, I have to admit, once I was giving a girl a massage (with lube) and was slipping a finger in and out. I did run into the tip of a fudge bunny. It didn't really bother me for some reason. I do agree that "ramming it in" (like in porn) is not very sexy, and sometimes downright tacky.
lol that sounds kind of fun. I personally think anal may be something fun with the right partner. I also think the opposite giving anal would also be fun. Tiffany
That's what fingers and lube are for.. gentle expanding. The different sizes of your fingers make them good items to move on up the scale.
It's really simple...your butthole is really small and tight and he wants to feel the pleasure of that. He cares not if you receive pleasure, it's more like a "take it" because I'm your boyfriend/husband and I want to sodomize you because I love your tight little booty hole type of thing.
My ex-, and two of my chummy girls have loved anal... when _they_ chose the time. I felt like I'd won the lottery when it happens. It has to be gentler and more mystical to be right. It's a womans' gift to a man: I never forget to says 'Thanks!'
That. Is probably the best thing I've evar seen on the forums. Oh, and sublimeinal... Nice update. Lollercaust.
... perhaps the "forbidden fruit" type attraction. ... tight, warm hole. ... animalistic instinct. ... warm, smooth feeling of female's hips on male's genital area. Like spooning, it feels very nice. ... males that are more attracted to hips and legs (as opposed to breast men) will more likely be interested. I'm certainly not an expert and seldom enjoy, but it is different and mutually enjoyable to some. Be patient, slow and plenty of lube. Fingers or dildo first help. Female must relax. Guy must go slow. Don't worry about the fudge. It's further up unless you are jsut busting to go and won't for some reason. Good luck.
I thought about this question after reading this thread and I don't really know why I want to fuck my girls ass(besides the fact that it feels good), I just do. Maybe a slight fetish? Don't know what compels me to fuck my girls feet either, but hey different strokes for different folks I guess. I don't force her to do anything against her will though.
After doing extensive research online and at the local university library it appears that between 75% and 85% of males that want anal intercourse with female partners are sublimating their own homoerotic desires. Face up to it guys and come out of the closet. Have fun, play safely, and don’t play with fire!