Its very easy to say for fuck's sake and not actually elaborate on what you mean. For fuck's sake man, challenge yourself, you might learn something here.
YOU are asking the questions because YOU dont understand. Nobody else. I understand. Waking understand. You are the one demanding these elaborations.
What do you understand about "For fucks sake"? What really is there to go on, please? What do you understand? Also, the claims you're making are quite obviously judgments about me. Unless I understand and have something to go on, I don't really have anything to confirm or rebuke what you're saying, and thus your judgment will probably persist forever, logic will have no place and you will forever be cursed with samish notions because you made no real effort to challenge them.
You know, when I was a child, I took the phrase 'falling in love' to be literal. Maybe the dizzy spells will help
I don't think in those terms. I rather empathize than offer advice or judge your adversity. Or say get over it. Or say you'll be alright. The only thing I will say is that, to me asking people to elaborate and explain doesn't help. I am helpless to dispel my angst by intellectual means. Helpless... In fact, these days I don't even try to dispel anything. I try to live with it...and let it grow into something else as my life grows into something else. If we were close, I'd offer a hug.
You're awesome No, because it is like getting blood out of a stone. In real life I tend to just nod and agree with people, as painful as it is. Perhaps this is my catharsis. Thankyou. You're a good lad and you have made me feel much better. I can see where you're coming from. The last week or so especially I have spent day after day overcoming problems, living with bad feelings and simply doing what needs to be done...but do you ever get tired? Do you ever just fall down and realize that you have an invisible mountain of shit on top of you that the other kids in the neighbourhood doesn't quite share with you? Then on top of that, is the judgment you get for not quite acting the way they do, and it is that judgment that just makes the going so lonely. It would be a little easier if we could all just leave each other a little room to be different, especially where we're not threatened in any way by it. I am just at that worn out, fed up point, we all feel that way sometimes and then we move on when we're ready.
Thank you. But it's hard for me to believe there aren't others around you who can empathize with you, and not be judgmental. I don't have anybody...