Are you Vegan Sexual?

Well, I've started yet another documentary. This one is on Vegansexuals. It would be great to get some feedback. I've already begun some on-camera interviews.

What would you NOT do with someone who is not vegetarian or vegan?
Would you not date him or her?
Would you not kiss him or her?
Would you not have sex with him or her?
Would you not do anything sexual with them? (I won't get graphic here in case minors or victorian school teachers are lurking)

If you met someone you like, but they are not vegetarian or vegan, how would you let them know how you are, and what options would you offer them if the relationship is to progress?

Oh, and what are your thoughts on using --- or not using --- vegan sex toys?

Do you have any stories to share about finding yourself in any of the above situations, and any advice on how others should handle them?

btw, If anyone is willing to appear on camera for this documentary, please let me know.

 

I am a vegan and i am going out with someone who eats meat.

i like them to drink some water if we are about to kiss and he just ate dairy or meat though.

ive never been with any vegans or vegetarians, both my other boyfriends ate meat.

so no, it doesnt alter my choice, would be nice if the person i was with was a vegan of course, but i dont let it get in the way of something special.

vegan sex toys, all for them, if i was going to buy some whips or bdsm stuff i would definitely buy vegan ones.

cant wait to see your documentary.

good luck with it

blessings
xxx

 

I've only ever gone out with veggies or vegans.. not sure why that is, maybe it's the mindset

Meat eaters don't bother me particularly, attractiveness doesn't depend on diet.. but funnily enough none of them are attracted to ME

 

I'm TRYING to go vegan, and i would date someone who ate meat. (maybe they'de reform??)

 

Im vegan.. and I dont think I could go out with someone who ate meat.. friends at most. It would just be too off-putting and living together would be hell. My bf is vegan too.. but only just, we spent three years together when he was vegetarian (but so was i at the start.)

 

vegan sex toys - that is the best phrase i have heard so far this year
they sound incredible. how terrible that animals should have to suffer for the sake of our sexual pleasure. where can i buy one?

 

Im a vegan and so is my partner. Ive only dated one meat eater and I would never do it again. It was rather disgusting. He loved the worst kinds of meat.....BK Whopers and Big Macs....barf. I was never sexually attracted to him the days he consumed fast food garbage. Im not much of a sex toy user.....well....they're fun on occassion but I dont use them all the time. However, it never occured to me that animal products could be used in sex toys? When you say vegan sex toys are you reffering to different massage lotions and edible underwear and stuff? Do they make vegan edible underwear? lol. Now Im gonna have to google that. Anyways...good luck on your doc.

 

I'm vegan and my bf is an omnivore.
I don't make decisions about whether or not to like a person based on their diet.
My view is that i wouldn't want someone not to be with me because i'm vegan so why do that to them?
Of course i would love if my bf was vegan or even vegetarian, it would make certain things easier.. like living together or if we ever had children.
I wouldn't love him anymore though.

Like another person posted i also make sure by bf has a drink and waits a while before i kiss him. I also don't like sitting too close to him (or anyone) when they're eating animal products.

 

I wish people would stop putting "sexual" on the end of everything to try and give some half baked idea meaning:willy_nilly: No offense

 

This is a beautiful idea for a documentary. Thank you for having the compassion, humanity and integrity to tackle this subject.

Umm... sexual attraction is powerful and immediate... but if she spoke of cruelty or mentioned her fur coat or something, it would turn me off.

I don't really have one night stands though; i tend to meet someone, find out i like her, flirt for a while, etc. When i think of a situation i was in recently... the only girls i ended up hanging out with, flirting with, and will potentially hook up with was one (maybe two) who had obvious compassion and feeling for animals.

I know you asked specifically about diet and vegan, etc. I think that's a great question but some people have failed to make the connection yet between their compassion for other feeling beings and what they eat, at lunch at work, say. In this case i don't think it's much of a distance to suggesting to them that maybe their diet could reflect that too. I think if most people knew the horrors they were contributing to when they eat meat, they would be horrified and look for alternatives- like vegan products or at least ethically produced alternatives. So the question here is more one of sensitization. And that's the goal we all have, I believe. To bring people into feeling. Then it's very difficult to support something or do something that's hurtful, like buy cosmetics that aren't cruelty free... because you feel it yourself. How can you do that to yourself? So she starts buying cruelty free cosmetics, too. This is the way i think we can all influence the people in our lives who don't quite get it yet.

That was kind of a long answer, i hope it helps a little.

To be more direct, I've had sex with meat eaters and non vegans. If someone seems cruel or insensitive or disconnected or unconscious of these realities, I don't want to be near them in any way. Least of all something intimate.

Thanks again for the work you are doing.

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i wish. the only vegans I know, I don't really know and they don't really seem to show much interest in me.
my girlfriend recently went back to a western diet.. from vegan. I hate it.
I hate cooking my food on the shitty pans
I hate kissing her after she eats the shitty disgusting smelling/tasting foods
She has my fucking child in her feeding him/her this shit
and I hate my life.