I don't know what to be anymore...

The only reason I wanted to be an Art Teacher is because my mom and dad want me to. Now I'm beginning to think that they only want me to so that I can live out the dream my mom wanted. I don't want to be my mom. I want to be me.
Then I wanted to be a writer but I get writer's block too much ,I can't spell worth a shit and my stories pretty much suck.
Then I wanted to be in a band, but that shit NEVER works out.
I've always had a love for paranormal stuff.
Then I wanted to be a bar owner but I suck majorly at math and the way busnesses are doing now a days ,I don't wanna risk it.
then, the other night while I was talking to a friend, he said I should be a shrink.
Now I'm starting to think about what everyone has said and what I want to do, and I am soooo fucking lost.

Help me please?
What should I be?

 

prostitute?!

 

im sorry i didn't realize you were only 15, you have lots of time to decide if prostitution is right for you....don't sweat it, you'll figure it out

 

I wouldn't worry too much about it. I'm still changing my mind constantly about what I want to do with the rest of my life. You're only 15, you have your entire life to come up with a plan. Don't stress out, but make sure you're doing what you want to do, not what everyone else thinks you should be doing. eace:

 

Whatever you want to be.
Don't get caught up in what you can or cannot do, just choose what you want to do - realisitically so you'd be working on it five days a week probably and then work towards it. It's not like you can never get better at maths or writing and spelling etc.

Or you could ignore that and becomes a pirate!!! Or a clown! Or a ninja clown!!
the possibilities are endless.

 

I wanna sing. It's my favorite thing to do, it really is. Singing and just creating and cooking. I don't know. Maybe I should be a chef and just cook for a nice place.

 

There is only one rational answer to your question:
Be yourself .... not what your parents want ..... not what your friends want .... not what anybody wants except you. Be what you want to be, but make good choices along the path of life.

At your age the best bet is to try to keep as many doors open as possible. You never know what you may want tomorrow or next year or next decade.

 

you, as a person, are not defined on what kind of work you do.

 

you could maybe work on opening up your own restraunt? or catering service.

 

You may change jobs many times throughout your life. It wasn't till I was around 30 that I settled into something that I liked somewhat that paid well etc

Also, you can have hobbies that aren't your "job"

Of course when I was young I dreamed about being a rockstar, but I have found I get a lot of satisfaction simply playing in a band and recording music etc even though its not my main source of income

 

Haha, I'm 22 now and STILL don't know what I want to do with my life. I can tell you what I DON'T want, though, and that's to be in fast food forever, lol.

 

Owning a business takes basic math skills, and you can always hire an accountant.

 

Gyno..?

You're 15, I'm old and still don't know "what I want to be.." It will change all through out your life...

 

join the fucking army!

 

there's a fucking army ...Do they go door to door and fuck people...

 

no, those are the jehovah's fucking witnesses. the fucking army goes to various foreign countries and fucks their fucking armies, along with lots of civilians, although they won't admit to that.

 

So when the Jehovah's come to my door if I let them in they will let me give them anal..?? Someone read my Dear Santa letter...

 

in this generation, the jobs we end up having in the future aren't even created yet. don't worry about it.

 

yep. they usually have watchtower articles tattooed on their back for you to read during the act.



i think bunnysuit's high again...

 

Make a list of your favorite things you like to do. Then do the second one for a living, that way you still have your favorite to do for fun.