Hello everybody! Well i am sorta new here(i used to come here along time ago but got really busy so i left for awhile) and right now am really confused. So at the start of the summer i was dateing a guy, i am bi-sexual. We had alot of fun times and were together for 4 months, at which time i got sick, and busy, and we just stop talking. Skip a head to now and i am dating someone else, and we have been together for a month. Well this guy at the start of the summer i dated and i got together today. I mean we just talked as friends, nothing else. He told me that part of the reason we stop seeing each other is because i am young and do live at home so i cant just do whatever i want, and he felt like i was living thru other people(i am 18 and he is 26), which is partly true. So anyway we had a nice talk today, and i releazied how much i had missed him. So now i am feeling like i want him back. Two problems i dont know if he still has feelings for me, and also i have a boyfriend, and a great one at that. I am very confused and need some advice, thanks!!
Your current relationship comes first. Decide whether they are worth giving up before you decide anything else regarding this 26 year old of yours. And DO NOT CHEAT!!! I've ben the cheater, cheated on, and the third party to destroy a relationship. The feeling is absolutely horrible. If you cheat, you'll be hurting your current relationship, your summer guy, and yourself. Trust me. You don't want that.
i second mono. no cheat. current boyfriend comes first. probably just a nostalgia thing you're feeling. thinking about past relationships is nice, but you have to remember - it ended for a reason. he even said so himself (that you were living through him). if you're searching for a reason to like this ex guy, maybe take a look at whats going wrong in your current relationship. everything ok there? anything need fixing up? goodluck, man.
Don't just stay with the guy your with now because people say the boyfriend comes first. Just take some time, think about the both of them and who you would rather spend your time with. All you have to do is follow your heart. Don't push the summer guy away because you have a boyfriend, but really do not cheat. Also do not put yourself in a situation where you could cheat. Just wait and your heart will show you. I PROMISE
