You don't understand my question. If you're reverting back to a previous memory, you're thinking of a particular woman when masturbating.
Yes. Sometimes I'll think about the fact that girls in other parts of the world play with themselves. So it's not a specific person, but you know for a fact that at some point, German girls play with their pussys. Somewhere a couple in Brazil who speak a different language and live a different way, are just screwing away and loving it. Or perhaps in 1836, some attractive farmer's daughter was bored, and spent all winter trying to make herself cum as many different ways as possible.
You're right, my bad. I suppose I do need the image of a woman in my head, candy canes and Christmas trees don't do it for me.
If I'm just playing then it's fun to use porn or chat or both, but when it gets down to serious masturbation and riding the edge, then 110% of my attention is on my penis and the sensations I'm feeling. Even my fingers are on autopilot, doing what they have done so well for over 60 years.
Oh, you've got an imagination like mine.....I can think of anyone, anywhere...a girl I saw on the bus....playing with herself when she gets home...or a girl somewhere across the world exploring her body and masturbating herself to her first orgasm...or any couple having sex, anywhere......I've got a vivid imagination...or I can just focus on the feeling, and not have any fantasy at all....
That's great! I want to approach masturbation as self-love, rather than an inadequate substitution for sex. :cheers2:
While riding the edge .... which is most of the time .... total focus on my penis and the sensations I'm feeling. Nothing else exists .... More to the point of your question though …. Often I start with mental videos …. about half the time starting with a past experience with a particular woman … and sometimes developing into a fantasy, but usually just replays. I’ve had some excellent long-term partners so this is easy. The other half of the time the internal videos are pure fantasy …. like being principal in a school training young Asian girls to be multi-thousand dollar per night personal companions.
I usually think one of two things about girls when I masturbate, 1. I either want to treat them nice and catch a nut. Or.... 2. What there head would look like on a stick. I kid I kid, that's from American Psycho. :leaving:
I think women are capable of masturbating without thinking about men, at all. Now, isn't that selfish? :toetap05: