I am 33 years old and my mother in law is around 58 or so? I have been married to her daughter for over 10 years, and we have been together almost 15. Ever since I first saw my mother in law I thought she was so hot! I fantasize about having sex with her on a regular basis and I would love to do it with her. She is in my thoughts, and dreams as well!!! Let me give you a little backstory... For years, when we were ending a family event, she would always give me a quick hug and a kiss on the cheek, but 2-3 years ago, as she hugged me goodbye, she gave me a peck on the lips, which gave me an instant hard on BTW, and ever since then, I have noticed that when other family members are around when we say our good-byes, I get the peck on the cheek but when it is both of us and no one else, I get the peck on the lips. A couple of months ago, I went with my wife, and my mother in law and her boyfriend to a fancy restaurant. I finally decided I was going to do something a little different, so I reached my hand under the table and I slowly started caressing my mother in law's leg. To my surprise, she didn't even flinch or move away. I saw this as the go ahead, and after 5 minutes or so, I remembered that she was wearing a pair of thin, clam digger length, loose fitting dress pants, so I moved them up her leg and was caressing her bare leg just above and below the knee. She looked like she may have been enjoying it, but it is hard to tell. I also think that by her not moving away was a good sign as well. During the caressing, I noticed that the faster I moved my hand, her leg would shake up and down. I don't know if this was because it tickled or not? I did notice though that if I moved my hand slowly that her leg wouldn't shake up and down? The part that worried me though was the thought of not knowing if she was going to tell my wife or not... Needless to say, she has not said a word about that nite, so my questions are these... Does she know, or have a good idea that I want to have sex with her? What do you think of her reaction to the caressing? What can I do to have sex with this woman? PLEASE HELP ME WITH FRIENDLY ADVICE! THIS STORY IS 100% TRUE, AND I NEED HELP WITH THIS SITUATION!
I vote 'no' because well... Because you're married? Definitely not a good idea. First off, it's cheating. Second... off? It's your wife's mom. It can't and won't end well :T But you won't listen to me so if she didn't move away from the touching, you're probably safe to do whatever..
Hi Laceyfan... I appreciate your reply and concern. Though in the end I truly don't know how I will go about this situation, your input is really appreciated! Thank you!
you should listened to those precious vows when saying them. For better or worse rich or poorer till death do us part . Best friend or mother Boyfriend or Dog or Horse you should talk things over with your wife?? What is not fulfilling in your relationship w/ your wife that you really need ?? Are you missing something sexually emotionally? physically mentally? Talk your feelings out before you do the wrong because when you lie and go behind someone back or do something wrong its called a _______ Lie!!!! If you really have to do it behind her back fes up and talk to her . Truly i would wipe the plate clean and shut the hormones off and focus on you and your wife . why do you need to interfere with your mil when she already has a BF ???
My thoughts exactly. Why do men get it in there heads that they HAVE to fuck a particular person? The answer is no, you can't sleep with her, be a big boy and move on with your life. Or at least let your wife move on with hers.
No... No... NOOOOO! Cheating is never acceptable. You made vows to your wife and you must honor those. It is devastating… to your marriage and most important to your SO! Being betrayed by a loved one really is damaging... emotionally, mentally, and often physically as well. Betraying her with her mother is even more horrible… she would be suffering the ultimate betrayal... by both her husband and mother!!!! I know the pain first hand. My ex-wife cheated on me several times. But even before I found out about her cheating, her mother, who was two years younger than myself, made a pass at me. I told her that I was committed to her daughter, I couldn’t believe that she had even made such a suggestion and there was no way in hell that I would ever take her up on her offer. It is completely understandable why so many women think guys are disgusting! It makes it hard on those of us who do try to do the right thing. Use the brain in your head and quit thinking with your brainless head!
been thinking... while I do not know you, here is something you might consider... how would you feel and how would it affect you if your wife cheated on you? Now, take that a step furthur... how would you feel if your wife cheated on you with your father?? I truly hope you find those thoughts disturbing!!!
Generalizations about any group of people are dangerous. I think this is less a male issue and more an idiot issue.
Zorba, this is a masculine trait. Some females will seek, but it is solidly a masculine conquest trait. To Bob. quit double dating with your MIL. Realize you are MARRIED, and YOU agreed to that. keep your dick in your pants. and tell MIL that the flirtation is WRONG. and show your wife and the boyfriend this thread. I dare you.
^ lol I'm trying to imagine what would happen if he took your advice. "Umm.. honey.. um.... I really, REALLY LOVE you, but... Is it ok if I fucked your mom? What? What are you talking about? I would NEVER cheat on you. It's not cheating if you ask permission first. And she's your MOM. Don't you want her to be happy?"
