Im 18, and me and my girlfriend have been having sex for about 8 months now. not a lot of sex, but once...maybe twice in a 2 week span. but what i have noticed, and she has too, is that during sex, i get close to cumming really fast. but only if i hear her, she likes to make a lot of noise, and i like it and all because that shows me that she likes it. but even if i try to distract myself to not think about it, just hearing her makes me close. and i want to be able to perform at optimum level all the time, but due to the fact that i get close so fast, i can't just keep going, i have to stop in order to last longer for her. i think i am more focused on her feeling good, but i am not able to make her feel that rush when the guy just keeps giving it to her. the only times i have noticed that i last a long time, is when she is face down in a pillow (not as much noise), and if we are standing up and having sex. but if we just start in the bed then it is all over and things are not going to go right after all of maybe 1 min. i know i sound patheic, but does anybody have any sugestions on to how to make it so that i dont get close to cumming so fast. thank you.
LOL it fixes everything. Umm maybe don't tell her to moan till she is close so you both can get off at the same time. Tiffany
