I really need advice

Discussion in 'Transexual and Transgender' started by heeldancer, Dec 19, 2008.

  1. heeldancer

    heeldancer Member

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    I recently came out of the closet after living as a confused male for most of my life. I started to crossdress about ten years ago and it got to the point where I didn't want to stop. I just didn't want to take the make-up and high heels off, if you know what I mean. Last year I was at a Halloween party, and you guessed it honey, I was dressed up in total femme. Well, to make a long story short, I got drunk and ended up giving this guy that I didn't know a blow job. Well, it changed my life forever. I knew after that what I was and what I wanted to be. I really could use any advice I can get right now. I need advice on trying to look more like a woman, attracting men, sex, and feeling good about myself and my new chosen lifestyle. Please, I could use all the advice I can get from both men and women.
     
  2. Priscilla87106

    Priscilla87106 Member

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    There are many websites that have information that you seek. Just google "transgender" or Transsexual". Do not ever think you have to do it a certain way, by that I mean you do not need to live 24/7 as a woman unless you want to, and you do not have to have bottom surgery unless you want to. Alot of us have a multi-gendered body and it is quite a turn-on for us and others.
    You mention "feeling good about yourself" and YES, that is the most important thing.
    So good luck and feel free to ask me anything you wish.
     
  3. TransTeen

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    I'm only 15,so my advice my not be the soundest,but this is what i have to say.I believe that your true friends are the ones who accept you for you.They'll accept your clothing and whatever else you choose to wear or do.If they can't do that,then maybe they aren't so much a friend.Either way,I'd do what makes you happiest.Hopefully your trail through life will be smooth and full of great compainions!
     

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