Right, this girl I'm with suddenly blurted out one day that the relationship is not going to work, she likes someone else etc. and she would understand if I didn't want to see her again. I said ok, then she cried and then she said didn't want to loose me and now we're suddenly back together again. What's with women? Is it some BS drama where I'm supposed to cry and show that I care? It's a very silly way of doing it..
Men are silly, irrational, and emotional too. The difference is that women's silly/irrational/emotional moments don't tend to end up as video clips on some shocking video website. Anyway, it sounds like she doesn't really know what she wants out of the relationship. And, of course she want wants you to be at least a little upset about the breakup. Wouldn't you be a little miffed if she didn't show some sort of unhappiness when you cut it off? At any rate, I would say that its time to move on. Its not fair to yourself to be wrapped up in something she is only half committed to. I know, I have been on both sides of the situation.
pms!!!.... a way of you wanting to show feelings and emotions and where she said she liked someone else she probably wanted and expected you to go " dont leave me ill do what ever u want me to do bla bla bla" most women do it.... when im pms..... i sit dwell and think of him with liking diffo women and that.... cause an arguement to get stuff off our chest then were back to normal again and fine and dandy...
Yep, women are strange creatures. So what else is new? Now, do you wanna try and make the effort to get along with them, or do you wanna turn gay?
man, reading that helped me understand myself a lot better...i gotta stop this though cuz doing it perpetually doesn't keep the partners happy
It doesn't matter if its "silly"; this is the way she is. If you want a girlfriend who isn't this way, move on.
come to think of it that gay option sounds better the dealing with women's drama. sounds like she's testing you. feeling your limits to say
Women need to be guided. However many women, just like many men, are idiots, they don't put enough thought into their actions. This is why you get girls who break up with guys and then regret it. Myself I don't like idiots so if a girl calls it quits and then wants to get back together I will say no a thousand times. For you, I would suggest go with your gut, but remember, if she doubted your relationship once, she might do it again.